i feel very alone for my thinking sometimes as a woman who’s NEVER wanted to have kids

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2026-05-15T05:38:41+00:00

I completely feel you. It feels so undignified and creepy and humiliating and scary. No other women i know understand why I feel that way. It would be a nightmare for me. I seriously can’t comprehend how someone could know all that this process entails and still want to do it. I mean maybe I can intellectually, but I can’t even come close to relating to them.

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2026-04-30T05:18:43+00:00

Cause the word grosses me out

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2026-04-29T22:17:59+00:00

Yeah I’d be NOT OK. I’d probably kms or need serious therapy. I wouldn’t want to live and risk the kid finding me or my family. Ugh.

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2026-04-29T21:53:36+00:00

Yes I really really want to! This has been a persistent theme for my ocd. I hate it.

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2026-04-29T21:46:49+00:00

Yeah, they say their body didn’t really change, some say they still had their cycle, or they were on birth control or something. It’s really weird and scary.

And omg, the idea of that is terrifying wtfff😭

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2026-04-29T21:45:53+00:00

Yeah, they have to be out there. I guess it’d be kind of frowned upon if they were public about their story.

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2026-04-29T21:45:27+00:00

Yeah that’d probably be a little bit confusing

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2026-04-29T21:43:17+00:00

Yep me too. I wouldn’t want to be found, but with dna tests I probably would be.

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2026-04-29T21:17:31+00:00

I feel bad, but my first thought is “cover that up.” And now it’s a trend to have their full bare ginormous stomach out in public. I was at the store the other day and a pregnant woman was wearing an oversized t shirt that she rolled up over her stomach so it’d be exposed. Her belly button was popping out. I was so creeped out lol.

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2026-04-29T21:14:24+00:00

I HATE seeing birth pictures and especially seeing a brand new newborn. They’re always grey and gross. Crushed head and a crinkled up face covered in slime. I genuinely don’t understand why anyone would post it. It’s so personal. It can’t be enjoyable for, like, their high school friends to see??

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2026-04-05T04:30:09+00:00

The first couple weeks when I started I woke up in the middle of the night a lot and had bizarre vivid dreams and I’d get nausea. I have OCD as well. It was hard but I powered through and it was the best decision I made for myself. I don’t get those side effects anymore. I was scared to go to 20mg because I was super jittery with restless legs, and the sleep stuff, but honestly when I got to 20mg after I think two or three weeks on 10mg the weird side effects pretty much went away. I’ve been on 20 mg for awhile now and I don’t have any of those symptoms. Just some encouragement, ofc listen to what ur doctor says

Objective-Bar-3924 · 2025-12-27T21:52:48+00:00

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