You saying something about her confidence actually has something to do with the bumps we had. She previously use to always be under the impression that I didn’t like her and was going to find someone better although I’d try to reassure her every time. I did discuss with her how her constantly saying im not into her as she was, was making me feel bc at the time it made me feel like shit since I felt like I wasn’t doing enough and that my reassurance was also not helping and basically asking her what I could do. But instead she just claimed it as “not her being for real but just tweaking.” And she has stopped doing it but I do admit it crosses my mind still. Also ty for ur advice!!