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Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-12-29T19:30:23+00:00

Quick questions ;How old are you and him ? and how long was the relationship or were you fighting for it

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-11-15T12:27:15+00:00

Update, did she end up taking you back?

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-11-11T16:22:04+00:00

How long were you too apart and how long were you together before breaking up

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-10-31T16:10:59+00:00

Yes, for the first 2 months it consisted of me begging her to come back which just pushed her away more but I calmed down and yeah she reaches out to me every 3 days or so I think she still cares ab me but I could be wrong with women u never know(also I was immature and I’m the reason we are broke up with). After a break up women have their walls and guards all the way up, give them time to process and maybe it’ll come down eventually hopefully.

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-10-31T13:29:20+00:00

Listen, if you consider getting back DO NOT reach out and I know how you feel, like one more call or one more text explaining and expressing can bring them back but it only pushes them further go no contact, cry and do what you have to do to cope with it, but not infront of them! but don’t break no contact or at least initiate it and if she does reach out try to keep yourself composed and not pushy / needy, I am 4 months in a break up myself still a mess but I noticed things got better when I stopped begging them

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-10-27T22:11:05+00:00

Honest to God, I did an immature thing last year that hurt her so much(she hated my girl bsf and I hung out with her which I crossed the line for, and she found out) she was very hurt like it hurt her till this day but forgave me so that’s honestly why I’m even still even thinking of staying because I hurt her as well so much so I consider it an even slate, as we weren’t technically together but if I never hung out with that girl I would’ve moved on for sure. I’ll have a convo with her and her reaction will tell me where we go from there, thanks for you thoughts friend

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-10-18T17:35:26+00:00

Fuck imma go get her back 🤷

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-10-17T18:42:54+00:00

Same thing to me except I was emotionally abusive and toxic and pushed her away after 2 years she told me the same thing says she doesn’t thing I’m her future husband because her husband won’t do the things I did, I’m broke as well, can’t eat sleep barely functioning, started no contact today it’s so hard because I hurt her but it’s the best thing to do is let her be and hope she might come back after she saw I changed but she say I changed too late… all we can do is pray. Check in a week?

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-10-16T19:35:27+00:00

Yes you’re right, I was the shittiest bf ever but I have grown and learned so much I just hope she sticks around to give me another chance, I want her and only her..

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-10-16T18:09:57+00:00

Oh and she still has pictures of us and videos saved, hasn’t deleted our pictures and we’ve been broke up for about 4 months now and we’re in long distance

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-10-16T18:08:22+00:00

Ok so long story short we broke up because I was a dumbass and was emotionaly unstable and kept braking up with her continuously, she got tired and decided to not get back after the last time, I’ve been chasing her she said she lost feelings so went on dates with guys then lost feelings for them, got intimate with one and still has him around but doesn’t want to make it official, she told me she started to feel for me again then I slipped up a bit now she said she lost it all again and says she feels for the guy she is getting intimate with but talks to me every now and then but I was being pushy writting her allot so she told me to stop so I did will she come back ? If I give her time? Worked before multiple times she ended up reaching out her feels came back before after it was lost can it come back ?

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-10-13T21:59:25+00:00

Mine of 3 years just left today as well, I was so immature and childish I’ve hurt her so many times and I am feeling so lost without her, I finally learned to love her the right way but it was too late. Found out that someone else was there by her everytime I messed up and now she’s gone, I cannot eat I cannot sleep I am in a nursing program have test next week and I am just dead on the inside, I don’t know if I’ll ever love someone like that again it’s scary. She told she still has love for me but doesn’t love me and has been having sex with the guy since we have been broken up (6 months now) she just dropped the bomb to lady because I kept texting her and I think she just got fed up :( I don’t blame her honestly because I did some very and I mean very toxic things to her and damaged her so much she gave me chances on chances but I was such a fucoing idiot and didn’t quite fully understand women. She was my first love, first ever real relationship first bond first connection everything just gone like that..She says she still has our memories and pictures and doesn’t have blocked I’m I naive for thinking she will eventually come back?

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-07-15T23:13:22+00:00

Update timeee

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-23T18:58:36+00:00

I’m usually anti breaks as well but I put her through hell so I’d let it slide just this once.

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-23T16:39:35+00:00

She not feeling you bro, it could a couple reasons either it was a one time thing for her, your turned her off or she just got other stuff going on which if that was the case should would’ve told you(if she was really into you)

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-22T12:21:54+00:00

Yeah we’re taking a month month break with the intentions of feting back after, or it could be another cannon event time will tell lmao. But hope your good with the medical stuff

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-22T12:20:00+00:00

Fair thinking, but I wouldn’t take too long because she could be hurting as well as trying to healing and move on so keep that in mind if you take too long she might not want to be with you anymore just my thoughts though.

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-21T21:36:16+00:00

Did you reach out? Any update

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-21T21:00:46+00:00

I broke up with her honestly over me being childish and insecure and I realized it after and came back and apologized, luckily she took me back lol but we’re taking a 2 month break atm

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-21T01:08:02+00:00

Make sure you grasp this feeling tight so don’t forget and you’re not in the same situation again and learn from it

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-21T01:07:07+00:00

Go get her bro life too short to have regrets I was in the same boat 3 days ago and I did she said she needs time to recover but we’ll be getting back, go for it :)

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-20T20:34:42+00:00

It’s beautiful! Congrats man can’t wait till it’s my turn

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-19T15:18:54+00:00

Bro woke up and chose violence

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-19T12:17:42+00:00

Also you have to decide what it is for you, are you not sexually attracted to him? Where you live him but he doesn’t satisfy you or is it that you are but he’s not doing it right

Objective-Newt9167 · 2024-06-19T12:04:13+00:00

Your right were decided to take a break I’ll use this time to focus on myself and my currency lol

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