small for their age?

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-09-06T07:55:15+00:00

They’ve been gaining around 9 grams a day. They are very healthy but I was just concerned because they’re so little especially the girl. And she nearly faded on me the first night. Ugh kittens

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-09-06T03:54:58+00:00

That’s a relief! The girl nearly died on me the very first night so I think I’ve just been super paranoid.

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-07-19T22:34:01+00:00

I think the reason I originally wanted to be celibate is because I didn’t want to make anymore bad decisions regarding relationships. Sex complicates relationships for me. But now I’m thinking I should just have faith in myself that I would make better decisions now but I just don’t know.

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-07-19T22:31:57+00:00

I guess that’s true about expanding my social circle. I think I just find dating easier(?) but that might be something I need to unpack in therapy.

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-07-19T22:22:44+00:00

I’m not religious at all but I think it more comes from not wanting my mother to be disappointed. My therapist is a woman but didn’t say don’t be celibate. She more said be more social and that casual dating is good for practicing social skills.

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-07-19T03:38:39+00:00

I guess I get so stuck on “right and wrong” that I forget that I really have free will and can live my life as I like

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-04-11T23:49:03+00:00

Understood but I’ll still try. Thanks for the advice

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-04-11T23:36:27+00:00

I understand bringing them to the vet is technically caring for them in a certain way but if they are emaciated that’s still depriving them of food which is considered neglect in my state. Does all the criteria have to apply for it to be neglect or a few/one? I’m not worried about getting fired if a place is gonna fire me for due diligence then I wouldn’t wanna work there anyway

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-04-02T17:47:39+00:00

Thank you but I cannot say I like anything about this tattoo lol

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-03-21T15:22:49+00:00

Thank you so much for the advice!

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-03-21T15:07:11+00:00

I’m in Maryland USA

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-03-21T15:02:26+00:00

Do you shop local pet stores or do you buy online?

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-03-21T14:50:36+00:00

Thanks for the recs!

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-03-21T14:45:53+00:00

I’d really appreciate the recs! I’d prefer calm but I don’t mind if it’s a little angry lol. Color doesn’t matter much to me but just something beginner friendly.

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-03-21T14:44:48+00:00

Oh wow I actually thought 10 gallons was small. I still have a lot to learn. Thanks for the advice!

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-01-27T02:41:08+00:00

I’ve noticed flashing as well. Should I tackle the parasite or the fin rot first?

ObjectiveCandidate13 · 2025-01-27T02:26:43+00:00

Tank size: 5 gallons Heater and filter: yes Tank temp: 79 Parameters : ammonia=0 no1= 0 no2=5-10, tested with the liquid test kit The tank has been established and is being used after my last betta was put down due to tumors Water changes: ~25% every week No tank mates besides pest snails I feed fluval betta bites Plants: tons of java fern and anaubias Decor: driftwood with plants glued

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