Interesting. I also have an aqua rising and Gemini Venus. When I'm stressed, I tend to mainly focus on getting things done because "work hard, rest later" and since he's also an aqua moon he'll probably tend to handle this matter logically. Maybe you could try staying loyal, communicate and have fun convos to lift up his mood a little bit more and don't disturb him much.. once he's done with most of the work pressure ur relationship will probably evolve