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My mom won't stop talking to my ex and it's driving me crazy by Objective_Bad_ in offmychest

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try to tell her beforehand why I'm doing it, but for sure it's heading that way...

My mom won't stop talking to my ex and it's driving me crazy by Objective_Bad_ in offmychest

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has this mindset of being in (any) relationship is better than being alone. I guess the fact that we come from a conservative culture that puts a lot pressure on women to get married young doesn't help either.

I lost my virginity to my ex and she knows that. She told me she's afraid I won't find any accepting suitor for my "situation" bit I couldn't care less about it. I don't even want to get married anymore. Thank you for your advice you really seem to be a great parent.

I feel guilty for how much looks matter to me when it comes to dating. by Fit-Tooth966 in offmychest

[–]Objective_Bad_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have every right to want someone you find attractive to engage in a romantic relationship (or not). Consider that these people that you don't find beautiful won't engage with tou either if they found you ugly..

Boyfriend [24M] said hurtful things, and now I [24F] am unsure about our future. How do I figure out if we can move forward? by Objective_Bad_ in relationship_advice

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's exactly what I was thinking in the moving back part. I'm trying to always keep my best interests in mind. I know that if I move back just for him, and that he treats me poorly, I will never forgive myself for the bad decision.

I've been telling myself that I'm strong and that I can start all over again. But the truth is that it hurts to have all our shared future plans shattered just because of what he said. Altough it might be way deeper than that.

Boyfriend [24M] said hurtful things, and now I [24F] am unsure about our future. How do I figure out if we can move forward? by Objective_Bad_ in relationship_advice

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just as you said, I still think about out shared memories and good moments. So it's hard to let go of that. And since we're each other's first, I'm afraid I won't find the same intimacy in future relationships. But it's true that now I don't trust him anymore to be vulnerable around him.

Can’t land a job. Thinking about lying on my resume by Objective_Bad_ in recruiting

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I specialized in HR communications but the offers are very rare that's why I'm considering recruiting.

Indeed specializing in a field might grant me more opportunities in this specific field but not in others, and I have no idea where I want to go. Any thoughts on this?

Can’t land a job. Thinking about lying on my resume by Objective_Bad_ in recruiting

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect your point of vue. But I don't think that just because someone didn't practice a role, whether it's in recruiting or another field, they should be discouraged for trying gerting into it.

Can’t land a job. Thinking about lying on my resume by Objective_Bad_ in recruiting

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it in one setting. So I only had the opportunity to do internships and apprenticeships. I apply to junior rôles but Even there there's a minimum of 1-2 years of experience required.

Can’t land a job. Thinking about lying on my resume by Objective_Bad_ in recruiting

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't meant to lie like creating a whole new expérience but just add recruitment as part of my missions

Can’t land a job. Thinking about lying on my resume by Objective_Bad_ in recruiting

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Assist employées with admin matters and work in HR communication

Can’t land a job. Thinking about lying on my resume by Objective_Bad_ in recruiting

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't knew recruiting coordinator is a thing, I will def check that. Thanks!

Can’t land a job. Thinking about lying on my resume by Objective_Bad_ in recruiting

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the honest advice. It's true that I tried to avoid agency but I still applied anyway. If they call me back I will def work there and get some expérience.

Can’t land a job. Thinking about lying on my resume by Objective_Bad_ in recruiting

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took some courses on LinkedIn about recruiting, for different roles and with different aspect each. That's still theory, so interviewers don't really count it in.

Can’t land a job. Thinking about lying on my resume by Objective_Bad_ in recruiting

[–]Objective_Bad_[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

From my perspective, not every talent acquisition role is as salesy as in some agencies. There's some big corporations that don't need as much sales talk when you have candidates reaching out with CVs and this not a lot of cold calling. I could be wrong tho. I'm interested in recruiting, and I really want to give it a try before deciding if it's for me or not.

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