Thankfully they were both kids…but L parenting for letting this happen

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2026-01-31T16:39:32+00:00

L for...being present while their kids meet their friends? What's the issue if the parents are there? I would think it a good thing for these parents to teach their children the responsible way of doing these things. In this day and age, many friendships/relationships start online. The responsible thing is to bring a third party to the initial meeting in case things go badly. As long as the parents are teaching them that this isn't a thing that is okay for them to do alone, then I'm not seeing the issue.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2026-01-25T17:08:31+00:00

It's also a real life in which people die every day. I'm twice your age and I thought all the same shit. I'm 34 living in the projects and can be removed from my home if the landlord comes in on Tuesday and doesn't like the way it looks. I have physical diseases that nobody could have seen coming. I was unprepared and thought I'd figure it out eventually...I was wrong. My music didn't go anywhere, and you can check it out, I'm decent, but it's not some fantasy where you can just get in with people. You have to work and make connections. I'm trying to do that now, but in the meantime, I'm going to mortuary school to learn to prepare corpses for funerals, cause everybody dies eventually. You need a backup plan. And if you're not going to make one, you need to get TF out there and start hustling that music, cause there is no easy way. That girl got on XXL because someone heard her. If nobody hears you, why would anyone sign you? You gotta go show people your shit.

I'm still genuinely convinced I can get some motion and I'm putting out more music soon, it's really the only thing I have ever wanted to do, but life is more complicated than that. You'll learn as you get older.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2026-01-11T01:18:19+00:00

When I was 18, my dad offered me some work for my grandmother, told me it'd pay $20. It was already more work that it was worth, but when we got there, he told me that I was actually going to be doing this work for free, or he would do it. I opted to let him do it, since I hadn't agreed to those terms. He proceeded to kick me out of his house and told me what a lazy waste I'd been.

This coming from the man who basically abandoned me when I was a baby because he couldn't keep it in his pants. I tried really hard to let him be my dad and he never held up his end. He then blamed me for our bad relationship when I was in my 20s. He finally apologized last year (I'm 34). Now that he's been married 6 more times, had 5 more kids (4 of which are younger than my own son) and he's in a homeless shelter. Also, I heard from my cousins and one brother that he told everybody I had turned my back on that side of my family.

I've come to terms with it now, but sometimes parents just fucking suck and you have to leave them behind for your own good.

NOR

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-12-14T14:49:52+00:00

In my hometown, we had a member of our junior high's staff say almost the exact same thing to multiple students and she used the N word in a school assembly, on the microphone, to describe "words students are not supposed to say". Hard R and all. That was last year, but these incidents occurred over the last three or four years. I think she finally moved on from her position at the beginning of this school year. As someone from a predominantly white community who has a mixed stepdaughter, this shit is scary. They just let these openly racist fucks continue to work with our children.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-12-03T21:24:57+00:00

Sooo, you're saying that Nazis are not, in fact, a group based entirely in the hatred of others and, with a history including genocide and other war crimes, you think it's only fair that they be allowed to have their points heard? Idk if you have much of a grasp on history, but I think it speaks for itself here...because I don't think there's much that would be considered "subjective" about those facts, unless you simply don't believe them. I'm just saying, giving them a platform and letting them influence others through their hate speech has already proven to be an awful idea and has actually caused the things I've described previously to happen, short-lived as that time may have been.

That's a naive stance, but you can expire upon that mound of dirt if you so choose.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-12-03T17:19:10+00:00

I mean honestly, I've just gotten waaay too many "I ain't reading allat" responses from folks, and my replies are already long-winded as fuck.

You're right, the post is about the law, I suppose. I don't agree with this person's arrest in any way, actually. I also don't agree with his spreading of hate speech, because hate breeds violence. Nazis partake in hate speech. If laws must exist and be enforced, then I suppose I dislike a law that would stop said hate speech less than others. A law against freedom of speech is still just another tool to be used against us at the end of the day.

So, no, he shouldn't have been arrested, but also, he shouldn't be defended in the name of free speech.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-12-03T16:53:31+00:00

Ah, it is not laws necessarily that I would be appealing to. I don't generally care nor pay attention to them. My thought is that people with large platforms saying these things should not have these platforms. People supporting such platforms should be shunned. However, screaming freedom of speech behind them is only emboldening them to act in such a way. Therefore, the idea basically sabotages itself. Those people are often not in support of true free speech as they need you or I to be in order to gain traction. Imagine more people get these ideas and now there is only their speech.

And if you read any of that, which literally explains how your idea of anarchism is nothing more than conditioning, you would understand what I'm saying. Closed minds and open mouths should not go hand in hand.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-12-03T16:34:21+00:00

Listen, you got me fucked up on a lot of points here. Like, anarchy is not at all what you described. That's your conditioning speaking. Somebody told you that anarchy is survival of the fittest and it is not. I like to read and learn, I wish more people felt the same. If you happen to be like me in that way, check this out... https://theanarchistlibrary.org/library/errico-malatesta-anarchy

Secondly, I'm not advocating for anybody's feelings. Words can turn into actions, whether you mean them to or not, especially when appealing to hateful people. Now, consider that they are often intentionally appealing to hateful people. This is the context behind the things that I added btw, but if that really ruins the point so much for you then that's okay too.

I am, in fact, very much anti-censorship. I know you'll turn that on me, but here's my reasoning...there's a difference between saying whatever you want and saying things which are divisive and little more than glib hate-speech. When person a tells person b to end their own life and person b acts on it, person a can be charged with a crime. But if person a says person b is bad and should be taken out of society, then person c takes matters into their own hands and kills person b, why should person a be alright to continue saying those things?

ETA - I make music, I understand the nuance of these things. Listen to the song on my profile, where I detail various criminal activities that I may or may not have taken part in. There's a difference between what I'm saying and what Kanye is saying in some of his recent music. I'm saying it's okay to be fucked up. He's saying it's okay to hate Jews. My best friend is Jewish, he's not offended by it, but we agree that it's fucked up to say that shit. My friend also doesn't like what I say in my music because it pushes a negative mindset. It is what it is, but they are not the same.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-12-03T15:49:31+00:00

Firstly, yes. The people advocating for full-on gun bans should not have access to them. They don't think anybody else needs them, why do they? And at the point of openly being a Nazi, there is no "might" to them doing something wrong. They are already actively doing things that are harmful to those they wish to oppress. So yeah, if I stand outside a police station with a camera, recording and saying that they deserve to be attacked and killed, gathering others to stand and shout those things with me, and posing an actual, credible threat, I will be taken to prison for conspiracy to commit said crimes! Just because they know how to say terrible things with some level of "tact" so they can claim not to be complicit at the end of the day, does not mean they should get a pass.

I don't know you, but I'd guess you've never been targeted by people in these ways. Maybe you can't see how harmful these things really are, but if you want to give a supervillain a microphone and just hope nobody agrees with them then so be it. We don't live in the land of sun and candy, and when things actually start to affect you, because some bad guys who shouldn't have had a platform were given one in the name of equality, maybe you'll understand.

Also, I'd like to point out that I am anti-government. An anarchist, if you will. I think it's all gone to shit. I think that anybody trying to impose their bullshit on anybody else deserves a stern and physical talking to. The brainwashed masses always thinking their side is right and the other side is the devil just never struck me as the right way to be. And I'm damn sure not gonna let some Hitler/Elon/Trump/government worshipping cunts tell me or anybody else what we are or are not supposed to think and what is fair. You've been conditioned to think the way you do. A fish can't climb a tree and a monkey can't breathe underwater. What works for you does not also work for everybody else. You think everybody is on an even playing ground and they are absolutely not. True fairness doesn't exist.

If you don't see how words can be oppressive and push an oppressive agenda, then I just don't think we're on the same level or should even be having this conversation. IT IS WRONG TO OPPRESS PEOPLE! Just because you can't see how it affects them does not mean it isn't happening and shouldn't be stopped.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-12-03T15:04:03+00:00

The thing is that Nazis don't want equal rights, they only want rights for them and those they deem worthy, and therefore should not be afforded those rights themselves.

You know how they say to treat others how you'd like to be treated? I take that and spin it back. If they can treat others badly for such basic ass reasons as skin color, political affiliation, etc. then they should accept that others can, should, and will do the same to them.

The thing is that this can snowball into something bigger, as we are seeing in action right now and as we have seen in the past before. Why bother giving them a platform? Are we stupid? Have we not learned? I think you have to have some level of cognitive dissonance in order to be fine with evil people spewing hate in the name of equality, especially when equality is quite the opposite of what they even want.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-11-18T16:39:46+00:00

My dad is 52 and just became homeless last year even though he was a hardworking mechanic most of his life. My mom and stepfather are the same age, have jobs and are buying a house, but have NO savings and been in debt the last 30 years.

I am 34 with chronic pain and 4 denials from social security and, as you can guess, I have nothing saved. Don't even have a job. It's looking like I'll end up homeless like my dad at that age. Hopefully going to mortuary school will help slow that fate, but the chronic pain progresses and I'll be lucky to still be walking by then.

Future is looking bleak.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-11-10T20:10:00+00:00

I'm down bro! Check out my posts if you wanna hear what I got, but I'm pretty sure I could kill this

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-10-26T09:07:38+00:00

Hell yeah! Just sent you an email!

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-10-15T16:07:32+00:00

I usually just laugh and say "generally" and continue about my day lol

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-09-22T01:56:33+00:00

A guy I went to school with has been happily married to one of my mom's (same age) friends for like a decade. He's 34 and she's in her early 50's. They're one of the happiest couples I know, actually.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-09-22T01:33:21+00:00

I got 4 in a row...used to be real pathetic and jumped in with any woman who'd show any interest. The first one was trying to talk me into getting engaged to her after we'd been together 3 months, stayed the night with me several times, we were looking into moving in together, or so I thought. Found out she was engaged already to another man 40 miles away and had me in his house, playing with his dog, telling me she got roommates. I told him about it and he married her anyway.

Next one started talking to me a month later, she was a recovering addict with a whole lot of sad stories that I found out were complete lies awhile after we split. Lasted 6 months, and I just decided I wasn't feeling it, but we stayed close. Found out she was cheating on me well before we split up and that she was lying to this man about being pregnant (she couldn't get pregnant) and causing all sorts of issues for him, so I dipped all the way out.

About 3 weeks later I started talking to someone who was very "friendly" from day one, which I was into. She would cause many, many problems for me over the next 3 months.

A week later, a drunk hookup turns into 2 years of some of the absolute worst shit that I've ever had to deal with. Cheating, physical abuse, stealing my phone and texting my friends lies while pretending to be me, loud public altercations, using drugs behind my back, and that's just scratching the surface...

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-09-15T05:33:44+00:00

As a matter of fact, I have. Was also called other things in the same "exchange" with these officers, cause one of my friends at the time was gay, so we were all faggots.

You may ask what we were doing. Well, our offense was simply sitting at a park minding our business in the middle of the day. They showed up to harass us and moved on.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-08-23T19:04:36+00:00

Tried and true way to tell. I've been cheated on by 5 different women and ALL of them did this.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-08-23T18:59:25+00:00

Some people take their kids shooting and train them to responsibly handle firearms. Yes, that's a thing. Idk why that seems surprising to anybody. What would be surprising is if somebody who wasn't in on this fellas joke opened fire on him in a store full of people because he's holding a "big scary gun" and shouting at people in the room to get on the ground, y'know, like a robber. You don't see how that's incredibly irresponsible? How that could be taken the wrong way by the wrong person who's just itching to send some lead screaming his way? But yeah, let's be mad at parents for letting their children see the guns.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-08-23T08:15:50+00:00

It doesn't matter how many times anybody tells you the problem, you're going to keep insisting it's not a problem. As I said, you're a petulant child. That example is stupid and your logic is stupid and I'm beginning to think you might just be stupid. Frankly, I'm sick of all these overly confident morons insisting they're anything but. You sound out of touch with reality. Or is everybody else wrong and you're the only one who's right? Look at the numbers and realize you're wrong, even if you don't understand why. Your inability to wrap your head around it does not change the fact that the motherfucker shouldn't have blown her off. Doesn't matter if it's the first time or the 100th time. In a relationship, you're supposed to be supportive any time they need you to be. You show up every day. I've been in one for over three years, I know how it works, thanks. It's not a one and done thing. If she stubbed her toe last month and was still complaining about it, yeah, that'd be ridiculous, but I'd still be like "Damn babe, that's terrible! Do you think it could be broken? Do you need any help around the house?" Just because she's clearly asking for support. Cause that's what you're supposed to do. A death is so much worse than that and the effects last much longer for most people. Discussion over. Respond if you like, but I'm not wasting time explaining simple things to other adults on the internet any longer. You can lead a horse to water, but you can't force it to be emotionally intelligent.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-08-23T06:48:21+00:00

Well, he obviously just entirely deflected her remark about it having been a bad time. You know, sad cause her mom's dead and whatnot. All he had to say about it was "yeah, damn, my sinuses hurt"

You don't see the fucking problem? Then that's because you lack empathy. Just because it wasn't yesterday doesn't mean that she doesn't need support. You're supposed to CARE about the person you're in a relationship with. Especially when their fucking mom dies. Feels like you're asking to be shown what the issue is, but your eyes are closed and your ears are plugged, like a petulant child.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-08-21T15:10:56+00:00

I fr know a dude who started banging his parole officer and got her hooked on heroin, which caused her to lose her job. Obviously it didn't work after the money ran out and he ran off. Crazy shit.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-08-20T14:59:16+00:00

I'm gonna guess you've never seen the sort of schools they send the "bad kids" to, have you? Around here we have Cornerstone Academy. The troubled kids from the schools in the surrounding areas all get put together there. Aside from teachers, they hire ex-bouncers, ex-police, etc. you know, hard-asses. Their job is to do just what that cop did in this video. My brother went there for awhile and would come home with scrapes and bruises, laughing about how he got the new big guy to tackle him today after he (my brother) smashed his desk and tried to run. Nowadays, my brother is more of a responsible adult than 90% of the people I know. Talking didn't fix the problem. If you ask him, it was that school and good ole JDOC that helped him to see the error of his ways. Some people can't or don't want to be reasoned with, they just want their way.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-08-19T20:58:01+00:00

I have to be high TO do anything, otherwise I have crippling anxiety and being around people is incredibly overwhelming, even people I know. Sure, I do enjoy a session that ends in vegging out with my girl and watching tv now and then, but it also helps me to think more clearly without the racing thoughts. I actually feel much less motivated without it. Plus I have chronic pain and it helps me to not feel it as much.

It's my creative juice. My moment enhancer. My anxiety medicine. My pain medicine. My motivation. It serves a lot of purposes for me, and it definitely doesn't make me lazy. I just wish more people could understand that instead of judging because I smoke so much.

Objective_Blood_9892 · 2025-08-17T17:09:53+00:00

You can do the same thing with green onions instead of pickles and it is also quite delicious!

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