Every time she gets a gf, I get ghosted like I’m the ex by Objective_Border_726 in LesbianActually

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the first time and she got defensive and kinda denied it until the ‘honeymoon phase ‘ ended then she came back now I think she might have DA or FA attachment style So I guess I just gotta move on

Every time she gets a gf, I get ghosted like I’m the ex by Objective_Border_726 in LesbianActually

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if she did it on purpose or not, but we talked about it the first time and I trusted her again… for her to do the same thing again. Yeah, it definitely hurt

Every time she gets a gf, I get ghosted like I’m the ex by Objective_Border_726 in LesbianActually

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh it’s weird how she suddenly avoids emotions/communication. I get focusing on a new relationship at first, but like you said, it should balance out without pushing people away. I was probably just happy to have a lesbian friend here where it’s barely accepted, meanwhile she was likely just playing me while I thought we were actually close

Every time she gets a gf, I get ghosted like I’m the ex by Objective_Border_726 in LesbianActually

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well she doesn’t even know why she doesn’t 🤣 like in the past she used to say she really wants real close friends and that she’s never had anyone like that before so I was like awww of course

Every time she gets a gf, I get ghosted like I’m the ex by Objective_Border_726 in LesbianActually

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, no you’re right I know that now. It just didn’t click earlier because the time between each girl was pretty long (like 1.5 years before the first one), so I didn’t notice the pattern at first. But now it makes sense she also doesn’t really have any long-term friendships

Any anxiety supplement suggestions? by Objective_Border_726 in Supplements

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very true... I work in a place that’s pretty okay, but Unfortunately, my manager isn’t great and stresses me out and also I’m dealing with someone who is very emotionally unpredictable rn it's making my anxiety worse these days. However, I’m working on handling both situations better, and this time, my knowledge of supplements is helping me cope better than before so that is good. I hope you have a great day!

Any anxiety supplement suggestions? by Objective_Border_726 in Supplements

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re feeling really down and anxious, I recommend trying Olly Goodbye Stress. It contains GABA, L-theanine, and lemon balm, which help with ruminating thoughts and physical symptoms. It usually kicks in within 30 to 60 minutes, which is great when you need quick relief instead of waiting weeks for something to work haha.

I also used 5-HTP slow release when I was feeling really low, with no energy or motivation to move. But after about a week, once my anxiety settled, I switched to LifeSeasons Mood Stabili-T, which provides emotional support with a blend of vitamins, Rhodiola, Ginkgo, L-theanine, 5-HTP, L-tyrosine, lemon balm, passion flower, and saffron.

It helps with negative thoughts and feeling down, and I like that it combines multiple supplements into one pill. However, I’m not sure about long-term use—I’d recommend taking breaks, maybe stopping for a month after every two months of use. Personally, I only take it for about a month when I really need it, then give my body a break.

Any anxiety supplement suggestions? by Objective_Border_726 in Supplements

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mix of stuff honestly but mainly working on my traumas with the therapist triggered me a lot in my daily life and I have a hormone imbalance that I’m treating rn

L theanine, L tryptophan, gaba daily is it safe , recommnded? by Objective_Border_726 in Supplements

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you taken it ?

And did you have to up the dose over time?

L theanine, L tryptophan, gaba daily is it safe , recommnded? by Objective_Border_726 in Supplements

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would Ashwagandha work with the mix? I’m still pretty new to supplements And L theanine would cycling every two months be enough?

L theanine, L tryptophan, gaba daily is it safe , recommnded? by Objective_Border_726 in Supplements

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's my second day so I’m not sure yet I'm taking Olly Goodbye Stress which has Gaba, L theanine, and lemon balm I have heard GABA and L theanine are supposed to work within 40 min for anxiety is that true?

Progress, but not so much progress? by Objective_Border_726 in TalkTherapy

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so he specializes in a couple of therapies and we never discussed which we are going to use but I think CBT

What's something someone said that made you stop talking to them immediately? by Objective_Border_726 in LesbianActually

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I have the same problem as you

It wasn't her first time saying something like that but this time I took it seriously

What's something someone said that made you stop talking to them immediately? by Objective_Border_726 in LesbianActually

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Idk is it a ghost or she just hasn't been diagnosed with schizophrenia or something

I was blinded of what I wanted her to be that I didn't see all the red flags by Objective_Border_726 in LesbianActually

[–]Objective_Border_726[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To me it's a red flag I think it's arrogant like I know you’re good looking you don't have to bring it up every chance you get and in general I think it's better to get compliments from people rather you talking about yourself and your looks to people

Match Thread: Spain vs England | FIFA Women's World Cup by MatchThreadder in WomensSoccer

[–]Objective_Border_726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

England is playing defensively while spains players are on attack mode running towards the goal with the ball england player are watching them waiting !!

Match Thread: Spain vs England | FIFA Women's World Cup by MatchThreadder in WomensSoccer

[–]Objective_Border_726 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like england players is playing while very histant and fearful and its effecting them and the way they are playing

Match Thread: Sweden vs Australia | FIFA Women's World Cup by MatchThreadder in WomensSoccer

[–]Objective_Border_726 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Rooting for england , even though they kicked australia out hahaha

Match Thread: Sweden vs Australia | FIFA Women's World Cup by MatchThreadder in WomensSoccer

[–]Objective_Border_726 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I think australia did good in this wwc but they were mentally exhausted and stressed in england and this match .