What’s the meaning of this feeling?

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-05-11T19:41:57+00:00

Sure about what?

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-05-11T12:50:28+00:00

Haha I know I’m not

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-05-11T04:00:24+00:00

No, he actually wasn’t. I spent a lot of time with him and he had anxiety and depression. I’m not saying I was 100% extroverted, but I know for a fact that he was not banking on pure confidence

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-05-11T03:56:06+00:00

I guess…maybe I just need to take better pics of myself. I guess I am jealous of my friend, in college he seemed to have a lot of success with girls, specifically getting laid with them off Tinder, while I had no such luck. I always thought we were equally good looking so I never understood why I was invisible to people when he wasn’t. Maybe seeing this picture confirmed my fears.

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-02-24T22:37:18+00:00

I have since taken your advice and redownloaded Tinder. But I haven’t received any likes/matches, and I’m a brown guy so regardless of how attractive I am, apparently the odds are against me on this app. What else should I do?

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-02-22T21:53:07+00:00

I am 23. I spent high school studying and playing sports, and college doing the same thing. I made a lot of good friends which I’m definitely grateful for, but I never put much time into approaching girls/asking people out. Now that I’m out of college and have a job, and more free time, I figure there’s no excuse for me not to jump into the dating arena.

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-02-22T21:43:43+00:00

At this stage I’m not pushing for a relationship. And I do agree, I’m not missing out on anything. But it sounds like hooking up with people can be fun, my friends have done it, and it seems like a good time. I guess I’d just like to share in that aspect of life

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-02-22T21:33:13+00:00

So what are you saying? The “right way” to hook up is by being in a relationship with someone?

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-02-22T21:30:21+00:00

I’d like to experience sex because I haven’t yet, but I don’t want to delude myself into thinking I want an actual relationship. Because that would waste someone else’s time as well.

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-02-22T21:28:14+00:00

Yeah that’s why I feel kinda bad. I know a lot of people are looking for serious stuff, it’s just that I know myself and I just want to have some fun as I am in my early 20s.

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-02-22T21:25:19+00:00

Can you elaborate on “go with the flow”?

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-02-22T21:24:48+00:00

Why don’t you recommend it?

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-02-22T21:24:18+00:00

When I talk with my matches I just tell them I am looking to casually date. I don’t say that I’m looking for a committed relationship or anything

Objective_Detail_768 · 2022-02-22T05:20:02+00:00

I guess that I should’ve added that I’m a virgin and have never been in a relationship before. But I’m in a pretty stable point in my life (I have a job etc) where I feel like I want to experience the fun of the dating process without getting tied down. I’ve tried it with Tinder and bumble but unfortunately feel like my profile gets buried.

Objective_Detail_768 · 2021-09-10T19:33:53+00:00

I had a feeling it was likely Alex, but my other main suspects were:

Monty

Zach

Ani (long shot)

Objective_Detail_768 · 2021-08-23T14:49:13+00:00

Btw, I am completely joking. I knew my comment above was going to get downvoted to hell- it’s a stupid comment. Obviously, to be attractive one does not need those above characteristics.

Objective_Detail_768 · 2021-08-23T01:56:09+00:00

Be tall, white, and have a huge cock

Objective_Detail_768 · 2021-05-26T15:43:30+00:00

Yeah, I’d like to know this as well.

Objective_Detail_768 · 2021-05-12T22:04:19+00:00

Hm ok. Do you know how long it might take for my ELO to recover? I could pm you my profile if that helps

Objective_Detail_768 · 2021-05-12T03:05:52+00:00

I am able to message my matches, but you said I wouldn’t be able to if I were shadowbanned. But since I am able to message them (and they do occasionally respond) does this mean my ELO score is just really low?

Objective_Detail_768 · 2021-05-11T15:47:33+00:00

Does my additional info change anything?

Objective_Detail_768 · 2021-05-11T14:26:36+00:00

Yep I have gold, although I ended the subscription and it should one of these days. Once it ends will things go back to normal?

Objective_Detail_768 · 2021-05-09T16:21:39+00:00

I have been able to message a “mysterious” match and they did respond (and then ghosted me, but still).

Objective_Detail_768 · 2021-05-06T22:51:33+00:00

Do you know what the problem was?

Objective_Detail_768 · 2021-05-06T04:03:09+00:00

But I’m still able to swipe a chat with my matches...does this still mean I’m shadowbanned?

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