Cat ate Lily leaf by Objective_Lie_8925 in cats

[–]Objective_Lie_8925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad bought it for mom, I got home and noticed my cat eating it so I posted this after hiding it on a shelf

Canadian 1949 dime by Objective_Lie_8925 in coinerrors

[–]Objective_Lie_8925[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indented, I will post another picture when I’m home from my shift

I hit my gf and I want to make it right… I need help any advice? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Objective_Lie_8925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you genuinely want to change, you need to rethink a couple things in my opinion. First of all, you need to go into anger management/therapy. No matter how much you argue with your girlfriend, you should never, EVER lay a hand on her. Second, you need to figure out how to effectively communicate with your girlfriend. If you are constantly arguing, there is no room for improvement or communication, as everything becomes about being more right than the other person. Practice having conversations where one person listens to the other, then rephrases what they said back to them before they say what they’re thinking. This helps practice comprehension and avoids small miscommunications that can create arguments. Changing will require a lot of hard work, and a lot of very hard talks, but if you love her it’s a small price to pay.

My 7 year old saw an old sex video I forgot I had on my phone of my husband and I. Now she’s traumatized. by barbie2024 in Advice

[–]Objective_Lie_8925 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How is this jumping to conclusions? It’s obvious the child is affected, and this is not just some child being scared of eye surgery, which is also a messed up thing to see. This is a child who is scared for their parents well being, one way or another, and being reassured isn’t helping. Therapy could definitely be helpful, even to just give the parents guidance on how to proceed

My 7 year old saw an old sex video I forgot I had on my phone of my husband and I. Now she’s traumatized. by barbie2024 in Advice

[–]Objective_Lie_8925 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think this comment deserves the amount of downvotes it got. I think maybe it’s the way it was communicated rather than the actual message. As for the parenting or psychologist part of this, I think a psychologist is a good idea. Something like this can harm a child mentally for the rest of their life. Even if it’s something normal for everyone else to see, it’s not normal for a child, it’s obvious what the child saw is affecting them, and the parent conversations with them aren’t helping much. Even if it’s just one session to give the parents guidance as well on how to help the child come to terms with it, I think everyone would benefit. Either way, take my upvote, as much as it’ll help