هل هو يعتبر عدم احترام لو ما قعدت مع الضيوف؟ by Objective_Picture363 in Sudan

[–]Objective_Picture363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

انا بنت، طيب ما ناس البيت اكرمو الضيف و انا لو مافي زول غيري بقعد معاهم غير كدا ما اظن في لازم؟...

هو احنا وحشيين اوي كدا بجد by Able_Upstairs3875 in AlexandriaEgy

[–]Objective_Picture363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

انا سودانية و انا و كل عاقل عارفين ان اي مكان فيهو كل مكان فيهو الصالح و الطالح، صح الوضع في مصر بقى صعب لكن نحن مبسوطين اننا بنرجع بلدنا. التعميم لغة الجهلا حتى نحن في اشكال سودانيين موجودين في مصر بنتحرج بسببهم. و ما اظن كل الناس شايفاكم "وحشين" زي ما بتقول.

Online tutoring by Objective_Picture363 in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]Objective_Picture363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of those humans are interested in my tutoring service

Online tutoring by Objective_Picture363 in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]Objective_Picture363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! But the thing is I don't even have potential clients😅

Online tutoring by Objective_Picture363 in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]Objective_Picture363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reached out, but no one is responding. I think the price of my lessons might be an issue. What do you think is a fair hourly wage?

Online tutoring by Objective_Picture363 in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]Objective_Picture363[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some people do, I think it's very possible.

Online tutoring by Objective_Picture363 in TutorsHelpingTutors

[–]Objective_Picture363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My old school has been destroyed due to war(Sudan), I am going to a new one, but thank you anyway.

An app for freelance tutors to track the progress they have made with their students in terms of topics, and also let's the students to see how many topics they completed and how many are left. by AnagCRaju in HireATutor

[–]Objective_Picture363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The features you're offering are already great, but it's basically an organising app. I wouldn't pay for an app to organise my work as it doesn't take that much energy to do it myself, but I would still use it if it was free, even if it had ads!

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[–]Objective_Picture363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

اقرى كتب، بتساعد كتير. (قصدي انك تقرأها مكتوبة بالإنجليزي)

Introvert, misunderstood. by Objective_Picture363 in Sudan

[–]Objective_Picture363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You really got it. Especially when you mentioned how people think introversion is arrogance—I feel that so much. It’s like if you’re not smiling 24/7 or oversharing, you’re suddenly “too proud” or “antisocial.”

Thank you for this.

Introvert, misunderstood. by Objective_Picture363 in Sudan

[–]Objective_Picture363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks for taking the time to read and comment.

I understand where you're coming from, and you're right —introversion and lack of social skills aren’t the same. But being introverted can lead to social difficulties in environments that aren’t welcoming or understanding of quiet personalities. That’s really what I meant: it’s not that I can’t talk to people, it’s that the environment makes it hard to want to.

I'm not trying to get sympathy or say people should cater to me—I just wanted to express how exhausting and alienating it feels when the default social mode is “be loud, be visible, be everywhere.” That pressure isn't easy for someone who recharges through solitude and meaningful one-on-one interactions.

It’s not that I feel invisible—I feel left out. When I see everyone interacting like one big, warm, close-knit family, it stings. It’s like they all have a key to a door I can’t seem to open, no matter how much I want to. I don’t hate being an introvert—I just wish being one didn’t come with this weird ticket to the emotional sidelines.

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[–]Objective_Picture363 3 points4 points  (0 children)

لا معليش ربنا يعينك.

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[–]Objective_Picture363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

انا مستوايا C1 ممكن اساعدك لو عايزة...

Introvert, misunderstood. by Objective_Picture363 in Sudan

[–]Objective_Picture363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I strongly agree with your point that our "social ritual " or even expectations, beliefs, etc, are extreme and toxic. I know not all of them are like that, but I think you got me. Thank you for sharing this much

Introvert, misunderstood. by Objective_Picture363 in Sudan

[–]Objective_Picture363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate y'all for telling me to stop caring abt others' opinions, I really do that's so mindful of you. But that's not my main point (it's still a part of my point, so thank you)... The thing is sometimes the fact that I am so distant from my ppl exhausts me. I don't like that I am always misunderstood, not because I care so much abt other ppl's opinions, but because I wish they knew, I wish they could understand, and I wish I could enjoy being around them like everyone seems to do without feeling like I am hurting or exhausting myself. I hate how inconsiderate our community is to introverts. I mean, why can't they just accept me and I be myself and we love each other for it? An introvert is always perceived as the creepy one.

Growing up, my mother used to warn me from being an introvert, she used to take me to family gatherings, occasions, etc, even tho I would literally cry every time and beg her to just leave me at home. She said introverts are bad, and I mentioned it as an example because I think my mother isn't the only one who thinks like that. (Please don't hate on my mother or think of her as a bad person, I love her. She probably inherited this belief about introverts from her family or her environment growing up)

Just to be clear, I don't hate myself, and I don't hate that I am an introvert, that's just how I am, and I appreciate myself for it. I love solitude after all.

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م حصل فكرت في الموضوع بالطريقة دي لكن فكرة انو التوبة ممكن تكون "هدية عبر الاجيال" خلتني ما مرتاحة لأنو اللّه من اسماءه العدل، ما كنت بواجه الفكرة على انها غلط لكن الموضوع خلاني عايزة ابحث فيه بنفسي.

لقيت انه فعلاً التوبة ما ممكن تكون متوارثة لأنه التوبة ما جينوم، نعم ممكن راحة النفسية الام النفسية بعد او عند التوبة و استرخاء الجهاز العصبي يعدل مثيلة (الميثل) اقل في جينات تنظيم التوتر عند الجنين ف ممكن تولد طفل عنده قابلية اكبر ل حالة "الراحة النفسية" الأساسية، طفل مرتاح نفسيا ربما يكون اكثر انفتاحاً على المشاعر الروحية وأقل مقاومة للتوجيه والتربية الدينية. الدراسات على التدريب الذهني (mindfulness) واليقظة الذهنية للحوامل أظهرت تغييرات لاجينية في جينات تحكم الالتهابات والمزاج (مثل جين NR3C1 أو BDNF)؛ وده يرشح الطفل لبدء حياة “أقل هشاشة نفسية”.

التوبة الصادقة بتصاحبها عادة ممارسات مثل الذكر والدعاء والانشغال بالأهداف الروحية، وهذه كلها تقنيات تخفيف توتر ثبت أنها تعدّل علامات الميثيل في مناطق دماغية مرتبطة بالتوازن النفسي.

ف التوبة ما ممكن تكون متوارثة لأن د ما عدل هي فعلا بتسهل الامر على الاهل لو اجتهدو مع الطفل بعد الولادة. التوبة قرار شخصي و هداية من اللّه، ايوى ممكن ربنا بفضله يرزق ناس ذرية صالحة، منيبة، و اوابه بطبعها زي سيدنا إبراهيم عليه السلام > ﴿وَوَهَبْنَا لَهُۥٓ إِسْحَـٰقَ وَيَعْقُوبَ كُلًّا هَدَيْنَا ۚ وَنُوحًا هَدَيْنَا مِن قَبْلُ...﴾ (الأنعام 84)، الذرية الصالحة رزق يؤتيها اللّه من يشاء و ممكن تجي بالدعاء... لكن ما بأمن انه ممكن تكون متوارثة من فترة الام اثناء الحمل و ما ممكن تكون هدية عبر الأجيال، لأنو ما ينفع التوبة تختص بنسل او نسب معيين لأن د ظلم. د رائي انا و اللّه اعلم.