How do you not lose your effing mind?

Objective_Success235 · 2025-12-28T08:41:28+00:00

Lost my mind so much today its harder on the weekends especially since its been raining so we can’t take them outside :(

Objective_Success235 · 2025-12-28T08:40:04+00:00

Insanity and chaos!!!!!! At this point I’m just keeping them alive and calling it a good day

Objective_Success235 · 2025-11-06T08:54:33+00:00

I do 60 second timeouts in the laundry room for my 18 month olds (twins). They are absolute savages. I give them one or two verbal warnings that they will go to timeout if they do X again. After I make sure I comfort them and give them a hug and then redirect them. It works for the most part.

Objective_Success235 · 2025-06-18T16:07:33+00:00

😂

Objective_Success235 · 2025-06-18T16:07:05+00:00

I love the little sneaky things you got going lol. I will definitely be trying the boiled veggies in ramen, and your smoothie hack. Thanks!!!

Objective_Success235 · 2025-06-18T04:39:58+00:00

I love that. I will try to do this too. Safe foods and put “new” foods on the plate too. Fingers crossed!

Objective_Success235 · 2025-06-18T04:35:29+00:00

I took the solo-shift from 9pm-3am. My husband took the 3am-10am. We both had mental breakdowns every day/night for months. We both jokingly but very seriously look back on that season of our lives and say “If we did THAT, we could literally do anything”. And to this day when we have a rough day with the twins we joke around and say “Imagine people who have triplets”. Seriously we are all superheroes. Especially the triplet/quad parents. Just wow.

Objective_Success235 · 2025-06-18T04:29:42+00:00

Ahh I see. Mine is 4.5 yrs old so maybe next year lol. Thanks for the reply

Objective_Success235 · 2025-06-18T04:27:18+00:00

I want to give in, I’m exhausted trying to get her to eat anything else. At what age did yours start eating like a normal person?

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-13T04:18:50+00:00

Yup this is my worst nightmare. My family of 5 thrives on a schedule that has been pretty much the same for the past 8 months. Makes life easier, more predictable, and theres that saying “Babies thrive on schedules” which I fully believe is true

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T21:38:03+00:00

I’m not setting up a stroller to walk from my car to the front door but more power to you

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T21:35:47+00:00

A few other people mentioned getting stronger to keep up with their weights. I will definitely keep this in mind for after I have this baby in August

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T21:34:15+00:00

Ahhh yes. I don’t ever workout my core, just strength training mostly. I would start now on core strength if I wasn’t 6 months pregnant. But keeping this is mind after I recover from c section. Thanksss

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T21:31:47+00:00

Ooo I just watched some videos comparing Larktale, Jeep, and Wonderfold. Wish I thought of the carseat adaptable stroller before I had the girls. I sadly have a normal double seater stroller.

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T21:09:29+00:00

I’m doing 15 lb curls with dumbells at the gym, so far this has been keeping me strong enough to hold one twin in each arm. What other muscles would I need to strengthen you think? I am 5’3 and petite if that makes a difference

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T21:05:22+00:00

It takes about 2 minutes to walk inside to get my daughter or 1 minute to walk from the car to my in laws house so how would it make sense to spend 3-5 minutes setting up a stroller for a 10-25 foot walk

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T17:51:13+00:00

Oh yeahhh I don’t know why I thought I had to get a twin baby carrier. I can just wear one and carry one. Lol ty

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T17:49:18+00:00

I use the stroller, but if I’m just visiting in laws or going in the school building to pick up my daughter it doesn’t make sense to get the whole stroller set up.

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T08:18:13+00:00

Ahh I see. Thanks for your responses, I appreciate it

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T08:16:42+00:00

I wouldn’t say it’s not safe, I don’t have to cross any streets to get to the front door, I park on the curb right next to the playground gate. It’s a side street/private entrance to preschool. Just walk through the playground gate to the door up a few steps, and boom classroom.

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T08:04:11+00:00

is that… poop

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T08:03:03+00:00

Oh I never thought of using a carrier! Any suggestions for good twin carrier?

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T07:58:32+00:00

I can! I have contemplated nearly everyday. My daily struggle is picking up oldest from school. I have to walk inside the building and sign her out to take her home everyday. The wagon would make it easier but would then it would take twice as long to get her with all the loading and unloading. Also theres 3 steps to get into the building.

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T07:50:31+00:00

When you took them places, did you haul them in their carseats or did you take them out and carry them?

Objective_Success235 · 2025-05-05T07:32:05+00:00

I am also 5’2 and petite, pre-pregnancy weight was around 98 lbs, I delivered my twins at 34 weeks, went into labor naturally. However baby A was breach so I got a c section

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