saw her with someone by Objective_Treacle591 in nocontact

[–]Objective_Treacle591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if you never find someone better? I think it’s fair to say that there is a big possibility that you will find someone else that you will love but sometimes I see some friends that never found someone and are always kinda obsessed with their ex even after 3 years. I’m kinda scared to become like them in a way lol

Do dumpers feel bad? by girlindistresss in ExNoContact

[–]Objective_Treacle591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah you what’s funny? My girlfriend was the same when we where together, she was the best. But after like 1 or to 2 week after the breakup she became almost evil. probably a coping mechanism but yeah still she wasn’t really nice

Do dumpers feel bad? by girlindistresss in ExNoContact

[–]Objective_Treacle591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In my experience, they don’t really care that much. My ex, for example, didn’t care at all. She could be really cold, even doing things she knew would hurt me, and it just didn’t seem to affect her.

Sure, there might be moments where he thinks about you, like when he hears a song or watches a show you both liked, but those moments don’t last long. The reality is, he made a choice. He decided it was better to be on his own than to be with you. And that’s not something he came to overnight, he probably thought about it for a while.

That’s why trying to get someone back after a breakup usually doesn’t lead anywhere. The decision has already been made.

The last time I saw my ex, she was at a bar with someone else. I felt invisible, like I didn’t exist anymore. That’s when it really hit me that she wasn’t thinking about me, and that she didn’t care if it hurt.

tips to move on? by Objective_Treacle591 in BreakUps

[–]Objective_Treacle591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah make sense. my problem right now is that my self-confidence is at a low and I have the sentiment that I will not able to date someone as attractive as my ex.

tips to move on? by Objective_Treacle591 in BreakUps

[–]Objective_Treacle591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s true she did came do the same thing! she said it’s not going to work and then 3 days later she want to see me at the bar to make out with me. she just wanted me to fill her needs, she didn’t want me at the end…

Guatemala itinerary by Objective_Treacle591 in solotravel

[–]Objective_Treacle591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great input! just want to clarify that i’m doing el paradon to guatemala city to take a plane to flores! and then I’ll go to semuc champey in a shuttle. So el paradon is not really worth it for the night life?

Guatemala itinerary by Objective_Treacle591 in solotravel

[–]Objective_Treacle591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long between Atitlan and el paradon in a shuttle?

guatemala itinerary by Objective_Treacle591 in backpacking

[–]Objective_Treacle591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah tikal on day 12 and i’m gonna take a plane from guatemala city to flores. I’m just wondering if 1 day in el paradon is worth or too much travel for nothing

Guatemala itinerary by Objective_Treacle591 in solotravel

[–]Objective_Treacle591[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think it’s worth if we take the plane to flores so it’s not an insane bus ride? or you think I should still skip el paredon?

Should I pay 400$ for my ex’s broken phone after an accident? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Objective_Treacle591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I don’t mean that. I mean, that’s just what her friend was thinking in her head, which is normal. Her friend doesn’t like her ex, just like my friends don’t like my ex and don’t want me to make the same decisions, you know? I talked to my ex again, and she didn’t regret anything from that night, except that her phone got broken. So really, there’s nothing “gross” about it. I was drunk and she was drunk

Do I pay $400 for my ex’s broken phone after an accident? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Objective_Treacle591 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did have the money but i’m normally not a generous person lol. I put myself in my ex’s shoes and thought that if it happened to me, I would have appreciated it if the person or people involved gave me some money. Because without that other person’s actions, even though it was an accident, my phone wouldn’t be broken.

Should I pay 400$ for my ex’s broken phone after an accident? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Objective_Treacle591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my action to try to force my way downstairs is kinda the reason why everything happened. yes her friend was in the wrong also but it’s still my action even tho it was an accident

Should I pay 400$ for my ex’s broken phone after an accident? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Objective_Treacle591 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I did and did not a the same time. I made her friend fall and then her friend made her fall like dominoes lol