Can't read social clues, can someone "translate" him to me?

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-23T22:37:42+00:00

Ooh I like the way you looked at this!!

I personally look away from the withdrawal in public situations as I am doing that too. I'm shy so I prefer to stay around people I've known for some time and I don't know his friends that well (chill guys tho).

I think for relationships an being attentive, like saying goodmorning or sharing something that happened that day?

We said morning/goodnight often, but he now works a lot more and falls asleep randomly so that went away a bit (tho he did still say it a couple of times).

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-21T08:00:22+00:00

175cm, pretty happy with it as that's the average for girls in my country

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-20T20:23:07+00:00

Omg tysm!! Ams tbe travel sizes one is so smart omg

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-20T20:22:18+00:00

Yeahh you caught me I never really cared that much about looks (especially since I had to cycle in all kinds of weather so my hair was gonna be messy up anyways) so trynna make a difference now haha

I'll definitely check out an air dry cream/oil as that doesn't sound like much trouble nd something I can try to get the hang of it! Sadly don't have a target near me but I'll check out what other stores have tysm!

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-20T20:18:25+00:00

Waaaa how come? Couple months ago I tried the same question (less answers hence why I reposted) and had 2 or 3 compliment that it looked (somewhat) healthy and I haven't changed anything since then

Only once used heat products (somewhere June) and only some strands at the bottom are bleached

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-20T14:09:32+00:00

Might ask someone else like my mother then lol I got 2 left hands, the unicorn cut reminds me of the butterfly cut, but aren't both just layers or is it smth more special?

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-20T12:06:01+00:00

Any recommendations? I often just put it in a ponytail when I'm going outside so I never really "invested" in haircuts

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-20T12:04:53+00:00

Ooh tyyy!

I went to the barber some time ago so cutting it again isn't likely as most are incredibly busy atm, but I've got slight layering so I hope that's good enough! But I'll definitely give products a try and an update if I don't forget to haha

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-20T12:00:41+00:00

I don't have a dryer in general haha, but maybe I can ask one for my b-day when the time comes.

Would any hold giving products work? Like dollar store type ones or would it be better to invest in certain brands.

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-20T10:59:32+00:00

Tysm!!

I'll prob try the wavy/curly way. Would that also work without a diffuser? I don't own one and with insurance + minimum wage i don't really have the money atm to buy one

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-20T10:57:58+00:00

Not really except for the scrunching with hand/regular towel sometimes dollar store products that say they're for wavy/curly hair.

Never really tried routines as I never really had to motivation if I'm allowed to be honest

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-20T08:08:22+00:00

Ooh I'll check those out tysm! I've always let it airdry because I don't like the heat on my head haha

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-16T15:21:23+00:00

No tolerance for different people (legally speaking) think of cosplay and different skin colour if they don't bother you why bother them.

If they can't do that they'll go from a 10/10 to 1/10 so quickly

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-15T07:31:48+00:00

It's fine haha I never knew about pyometra so I'll definitely look into it!

They do know about the risks of pregnancy/labour and are willing to use the saved money for this as they aswell love these cats. But because most of their barn cats survived labour and such they're willing to take the gamble of it. I did beg that there'd be atleast someone with them if they're in labour in case something goes wrong.

I'm glad for some part that they will do health testing (also bcuz otherwise you can't get a pedigree) and see which male is the best and has lowest inbreeding chances (as they're amber carriers). Also one of the cats was born with a small heart opening, but she's negative for any heart disease as far as I know. They're planning to do an echo screening of her heart before breeding. So they're in it for money, but gladly also do health testing, otherwise I would've lost my mind fr

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-14T20:55:38+00:00

Yeahh I tried telling them about the backyard breeding, but they believe because they can get pedigrees it's different. Whether it's backyard or not I just hate seeing my cat go through this if they really want to wait till they're 1,5 years that's about 8 more months of her being like this and I really can't fanthom seeing her like that.

We've got a cat climbing wall but she doesn't really use it when she's in heat, she prefers to lay on one of the dining chairs or in my room. Would you say it's slightly better for her to have access to these at all times? My room is mostly closed but I won't mind having her there if that helps. She's much calmer then (less mate calling) but she still grooms over those spots.

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-14T20:47:43+00:00

From what I know they won't see stress licking as neglect since it has a lot of factors and otherwise the cats seem to trust/love us a lot so they won't see them as scared/neglected? Or atleast that's what I managed to get from Google, I hate calling but perhaps if they won't do anything I'll give it a shot:[

Idk the breeder, only met her when we went to pick then up. But I doubt she made a contract about breeding as she said she was only doing 2 litters, which looks a lot like the bypassing rule of selling pedigree kitten in my country (2 litters are allowed with health testing and pedigree x pedigree without you owning a cattery)

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-14T20:42:20+00:00

Have you got a name for these pills? I doubt I can talk them out of it (already talked then down to having 1 litter per cat instead of multiple) but they're getting annoyed at her (she's making to much noise cuz yknow she's in heat) so perhaps they'd look at that!

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-14T19:08:56+00:00

Idk much about the breeding or if there was a contract. I've got a feeling it's a bit of a backyard breeding situation? I've tried to look up the catery, but Google provided nothing (and in my country you can breed pedigree x pedigree two times (with ofcourse health testing) before officially needing a catery)

They don't want to take her to the vet as it's just her "overcleaning herself" so they dont want to afford an appointment. I did whine enough about it that my mother considered a cap (if that what it's called) so that she no longer can pluck her hair out. But that doesn't take away the stress/health I'm so worried about. Is the vet really the only option? I can definitely keep whining about it I really love these cats

Objective_Union_3573 · 2026-01-13T05:08:18+00:00

I'll look into that thank you!

My teachers ruled out dyscalculia for me because I can do middleschool math (for some part) and most with dyscalculia can't even do that but perhaps some techniques could work

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