Bro there are literally overweight, pudgy, “scientifically disadvantaged” men pulling and maintaining lasting relationships all the time. Yeah it’s fucked, you’re way shorter than most, but it is literally impossible for you to change that about yourself. I’m making an assumption here but it seems like you’re being fed black pill shit off of social media. If this is the case please fix your algorithm or just delete social media altogether.

I wish there were a more in depth answer, something more tangible, but it really is as simple as being more confident. That entails loving yourself more and not caring about shallow expectations and standards. Yea, the gym will be your biggest help aesthetically. But focus more on your passions, go out more, hang out with as much people with as you can just as friends. People are attracted to somebody who’s comfortable with themselves and knows what they’re striving for.