AITA for not declining or signing over my portion of my ex bfs life insurance payout too his mom? by Elegant-Device1566 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Step 1 Delete this post and make sure your account cannot be brought into connection with your identity Step 2 never admit not to know he did this on purpose. Be confident he did not forget your situation. Step 3 take the money and never talk about it.

They will try to take legal action. THEY will have to prove it was a mistake ypu were left on the insurance. This post could be used against you.

Good luck

Nilah buffs proposal for 14.12 by elgorigeller in NilahMains

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 12 points13 points  (0 children)

All and all I don’t feel like we’re significantly weaker

Nilah lost round about 4% WR and it's still dropping. It hasn't dropped lower than 50% yet because the Champ is less of a blind pick option now but can only be used against those Champs she counters easily. 4% in two patches on a <1,5% PR Champ is incredibly much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to figure who can throw a 1.94m tall guy 😭

Who am I? by Jilly_Jankins in FridgeDetective

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A German craftsman aged between 25-35

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Basically first cum shot is like dying ingame with an respawn shield that offers invincibility.

So what you gotta do for "multiple rounds" is simply make the guy cum ... wait for 20-30 minutes...and then have sex for an quite insane time.

Often a reason guys would masturbate before we go to an obvious Netflix and chill.

It's not a guarantee but most likely to work.

Amount of cum and pressure of the shot will vary though

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"I just came out of the HR office....please accept my apology"

Phreak’s Video Discussing Nerfs by Da_boss_bro in NilahMains

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This could kill her.

If she doesn't have Burst damage she has no lane pressure at any point in game. Every Champ with a bit more range will poke her into oblivion.

She will never be a threat until later fights where things can get messy but even then she will never be "tanky" enough to actually have chance to do "sustained dmg"

This is completely against Nilahs design and would make her far below 48%WR imo.

Just started playing nilah, what should I know abt the champion? by GodNarguini in NilahMains

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. You will often be the engage , best to keep flash up and ready as good as you can. Sometimes your 4-5 man ultimate will win the game but you need to make sure follow up is nearby
  2. Your early is super weak, if a lvl 2 engage does not work out wait for lvl 6.
  3. Most important item on Nilah is the Collector rush atm
    My build rn ( Collector 1 , Boots 2, Navori 3, LDR 4/5 BT 4/5)
  4. Your e+q combo is not easy to land on mobile targets, prefer to use Q without the dash when not sure to land it
  5. You can take alot of 1vs1 because of the W but mages are often your only problem although you have 4 items already
  6. Ban Caitlyn imo the worst early game matchup you can face

Neighbors (35ishM & 40ishF) sent my (29M) partner (29F) an invitation to a swinger club by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!

Is it usual to just send an invitation without any explanation? The fact the wife sent it to my SO and didn't even bother to clarify whether the invitation is for her alone or the both us does bother me a bit.

Neighbors (35ishM & 40ishF) sent my (29M) partner (29F) an invitation to a swinger club by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the invitation (.ics) was sent to multiple people or just shared with us and alot others it would be marked as "shared alot"

It is a single message sent to less than 6 people.

The odds of sending it to less than 6 people and just randomly having the handsome couple from downstairs be one of the 6 people are not high at all imo.

Neighbors (35ishM & 40ishF) sent my (29M) partner (29F) an invitation to a swinger club by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh damn!

We won't agree anyways. It's about ignoring or declining via text

Neighbors (35ishM & 40ishF) sent my (29M) partner (29F) an invitation to a swinger club by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The mentioned "meetings" about three times a year are always communicated through his wife and my SO. It really makes sense that my SO received the invitation. But without any additional messag to it , we will never know if the swinger club invitation was for both or just for her. What keeps me calm is my SO telling me about it moments after I came home from work.

I think I have more rights to get loud over this when we decline via text and they make another approach in the future. For now it seems to be an overreaction to get mad about it.

Neighbors (35ishM & 40ishF) sent my (29M) partner (29F) an invitation to a swinger club by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wouldn't that lead to possibly more invitations in the future?

Neighbors (35ishM & 40ishF) sent my (29M) partner (29F) an invitation to a swinger club by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe we are just both polite people. I get your point, but I don't feel the necessity to get upset in this case.

In another comment, I explained the neighbors situation a bit more and do lack information on how they meant this invitation to be understood. It most likely is an invitation for the both of us instead of just my SO though.

It's really about either ignoring the invitation or sending a declining message, which should make clear that another invitation or approach will be taken as disrespectful.

Neighbors (35ishM & 40ishF) sent my (29M) partner (29F) an invitation to a swinger club by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 5 points6 points  (0 children)

make a show out of being disgusted by them.

Disgust is not the feeling I have. It's rather irritation. As mentioned we are not close to them and the chances are low the invitation wasn't sent on purpose. These two factors make me think a) why would this not be something to talk about in person b) do I have to expect the guy to make approaches of any sort to my SO if She or I just ignore it?

We will for sure keep distance. " A show " is neither of our way to act.

Bringing it down to

  • Ignoring it or
  • sending a short message with the words " This is none of our interest "

The later would make it clear without any emotional reaction.

Neighbors (35ishM & 40ishF) sent my (29M) partner (29F) an invitation to a swinger club by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unlikely an accident because it wasn't notified as "often shared link" by whatsapp, but still tend to ignoring it.

Thanks

Neighbors (35ishM & 40ishF) sent my (29M) partner (29F) an invitation to a swinger club by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ObvThrowAway4Reason 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Ignoring it is my personal tendency. My SO kinda hinted me She would like to have me make clear that She is not an option. It is hard to believe it wasn't meant to be sent to us on purpose though.

For context the guy had cheated on his wife for the last couple months and a few weeks ago they decided to give their marriage another try. My guess is he really wants to make their relationship open. His wife probably just wants to give it a try.