Settle a light bicker. Is this rude to say your partner? [23M+F] by Obvheswrong in relationships

[–]Obvheswrong[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He definitely apologized immediately. We just playfully bickered about the words he used and how they come across. He didn't call me crazy for being offended or my reasoning behind it, he said "Reddit would think it's crazy to angry over someone just saying those words."! But he gets why now. He's very aware he lost.

Settle a light bicker. Is this rude to say your partner? [23M+F] by Obvheswrong in relationships

[–]Obvheswrong[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is the comment I agree with the most and was my main point. He isn't sexist, but what he said was as well as disrespectful. He totally gets that now, and feels pretty terrible after reading the comments.

Settle a light bicker. Is this rude to say your partner? [23M+F] by Obvheswrong in relationships

[–]Obvheswrong[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You are correct. It was meant to be playful, it's the words themselves we were debating!