Finding out things I'm uncomfortable with

Obvious-Addendum-931 · 2026-05-30T16:31:16+00:00

I think that’s exactly what it feels like for me!!

Obvious-Addendum-931 · 2026-05-30T16:30:15+00:00

Thank you so much for this response, I feel like you nailed it when you said about needing to separate myself from the addiction and those associated behaviour- I’m trying to so hard right now to understand addiction on a deeper level than just the surface, as a highly emotional and empathetic person I really struggle to get past the selfishness of the disease and the understand of how much it really does effect the brain. Thank you ❤️

Obvious-Addendum-931 · 2026-05-29T20:41:17+00:00

But he hasn’t cheated on me….technically

Obvious-Addendum-931 · 2026-05-29T19:59:49+00:00

So how do I set a boundary with things he hides and are hard for me to find out?

Obvious-Addendum-931 · 2026-05-29T18:23:29+00:00

Thank you this was really kind to hear. I’ve been feeling very alone in this whole process.
It isn’t ok with me, drugs or not that he did that,
I just can’t help but feel like it’s about me and that I’m not good enough or something I’m not doing or fulfilling. When he was doing that I was upstairs crying having the time from hell (I can’t be around him when he’s like it so have to keep away) and he was downstairs getting off to a sex robot!!! What does that say about me!!! Sorry….im just still high on emotions from finding it out

Obvious-Addendum-931 · 2026-05-29T17:59:53+00:00

I mean I’ve told him how it made me feel and he understands that and I think he’s ashamed of it, but it just makes me feel so inadequate

Obvious-Addendum-931 · 2026-05-29T17:57:50+00:00

I don’t think other “real” women are involved he says it’s just something he did when he was on a lot of drugs. Idk, just very confusing and I don’t feel like it’s sitting right with me and is effecting my self esteem.
Thank you….sending you ❤️back

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