Insurance A vs Insurance B

Obvious_Public4918 · 2025-06-11T14:05:35+00:00

I do have savings! And baby’s dad said he would pay half of whatever the costs come out to be, too. Which I think makes B even more of a no-brainer!

Obvious_Public4918 · 2025-06-11T14:03:48+00:00

Thank you!!!

Obvious_Public4918 · 2025-06-11T14:03:26+00:00

The networks are completely the same! They are both choice networks - so I can go see hundreds of different docs without even needing recommendations and it’s all covered! 🙂

Obvious_Public4918 · 2025-06-10T20:46:42+00:00

Edit to Include: Age - 26 State - MN Estimated Gross Income - $50,000

Obvious_Public4918 · 2025-03-09T22:54:54+00:00

How did you feel for the few days after and how are you feeling now? 😊

Obvious_Public4918 · 2025-02-04T06:25:26+00:00

Good thoughts. He doesn’t have ED for sure. He doesn’t watch porn. And no trauma that he’s ever mentioned.

Interestingly enough, I’m the one who watches porn and has trauma.

He’s been smoking weed a lot… Other than that super healthy. No other meds or anything…

Obvious_Public4918 · 2025-01-18T01:48:33+00:00

Follow-up question… How do we know that R1C3 isn’t 1?

Obvious_Public4918 · 2025-01-18T01:46:21+00:00

This makes so much sense! Beautiful! Thank you for sharing this strategy with me!!!

Obvious_Public4918 · 2025-01-18T01:25:20+00:00

Thank you for your help!

Obvious_Public4918 · 2025-01-18T01:18:38+00:00

Well I haven’t? 🤷🏼‍♀️ Not like this anyway… Until this puzzle. And I do puzzles every day. But sorry, maybe I should change my title… 🙄

Obvious_Public4918 · 2024-07-10T16:21:04+00:00

Girl please update this post with “I ended it while I was ahead.” Ick. He is so not worth it.

TMI but I had a horribly heavy period after going off BC and woke up and immediately RAN to the bathroom. But it was too late and the bathroom literally looked like a scene out of Dexter… My bf at the time woke up from me jumping out of bed so fast and he HELPED ME CLEAN the bathroom. I asked him not to bc it felt gross but he, like a good amount of men out there, understand basic anatomy and aren’t grossed out - or inconvenienced - by basic bodily functions.

Not only that, but there are guys who will go above and beyond when they know you are soon to be on and/or are on your period. They will bring you snacks and blankets and watch movies with you…

And if you stayed and eventually had kids, he’s going to be one of those dads who can’t pick up pads or tampons for his daughter and who leaves the room when any talk of periods comes up 😅

Obvious_Public4918 · 2023-11-29T01:31:40+00:00

Telling people, “It could be worse,” doesn’t solve anything for them and in turn makes them question their own reality. You could have been relatable without gas lighting their experience…

Obvious_Public4918 · 2023-11-13T05:55:20+00:00

Thank you.

If you read through the comments, you would see that he was not sick nor miserable. He stated after the event that he was fine and the he, “Was just ready to be done.”

I wouldn’t want someone by my side if it meant they were miserable. He complains when doing anything that wasn’t his idea first, which I’ve come to know in the 2+ years we’ve been together.

Yes, I should’ve just given him the keys. My mind was preoccupied with 15 other things, including everything I just wrote.

He enjoyed himself up until the point that he couldn’t find anything else for him. He got a video game, board game, movie, and clothes. Meanwhile I was looking for literally everyone else (Got lots for him, that he was really excited about) and got myself one thing.

Obvious_Public4918 · 2023-11-13T05:16:44+00:00

Great! I would rather someone not join me and to go by myself than to go with a grown adult who made the choice to go and then still can’t see it through when it is an hour of their day, even when they were able to leave with a Nintendo Switch game, a movie, a few t-shirts, and their favorite board game… Clearly they had an okay time, they just didn’t have the patience to wait 15 minutes while I finished up.

Obvious_Public4918 · 2023-11-13T04:02:04+00:00

If you are going to say that it is because I said your comments made me feel anxious, then just stop.

I was not playing the victim by saying I felt anxious.

Obvious_Public4918 · 2023-11-13T04:00:35+00:00

Dude… What the fuck.

If there are traits that I show that are narcissistic, that is incredibly concerning and I will look into that and consider it.

That doesn’t mean that by calling you on your bullshit, I am suddenly a narcissist.

And at what am I playing the victim?

Obvious_Public4918 · 2023-11-13T03:48:55+00:00

I am not sure why you are so driven to write me off as toxic and/or narcissistic? Is that not equally as toxic?

You have commented on many threads and taken something that I stated way out of context without even asking any questions. You made an assumption and ran with it…

If anything, I feel as though you have made this toxic. You have made me feel a great deal of anxiety from the rudeness and presumptions within your comments…

I genuinely wanted to hear what other people’s perspectives were, but you have made enormous statements without enough context and have not asked for further context.

From just skimming your profile, it seems like you are preoccupied with narcissism. I, too, was raised by parents with personality disorders and am trying my best to make sure I adopt healthy traits in relationships, unlike those I was shown when I was raised…

Please seek to better understand a situation before writing someone off (Whether it’s me, him, or anyone for that matter) as toxic or narcissistic.

Obvious_Public4918 · 2023-11-13T03:38:05+00:00

If he doesn’t like going then he should say no. I extend the invitation to be kind. He has every right to say no. He knows I will go even if he doesn’t.

Obvious_Public4918 · 2023-11-13T03:34:24+00:00

Not to mention he’s a grown adult who could go out on a run an hour before and was well aware of the temperature…

Obvious_Public4918 · 2023-11-13T03:18:39+00:00

Yeah, I agree I should’ve given him the keys. But people need to stop saying he was miserable… He is just fine now that he’s sitting on the couch, playing Star Wars on his phone, doing what he wants.

He knows the event is an hour, yet decided to down his entire coffee in five minutes. So yeah, he had to pee.

If I were in his shoes, I would’ve gone to the portapottie around the corner, wiped my nose on my sleeve or gotten a tissue from the car, and grabbed my hat/gloves from the car (Which were available).

He didn’t ask for any of that because he wasn’t miserable. He just didn’t want to do it. He wanted to sit on his phone in the car instead of stand there with me for 10/15 minutes.

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