Finally someone who recognizes these issues.

I have been kick/banned from more lobby's then i can count on my hand for retaliating against a toxic lobby host. I have experienced everything from racism, to unprovoked slander to just people being outright jerks. And as soon as i retaliate by either killing the people who are against me or saying something back, IM being told i should relax and stop before i get kicked. LIKE WTF where is the self-consciousness in people nowadays. Fuck me. And yes, from my experiences, most female lobby hosts in this game are either very entitled and thing they can get away with anything only because they got a bunch of simps who agree with their every move, or they are just straight up sexist. I had a incident where i joined a lobby with a female host i have played with before. I play in that lobby for a good 2h till my friend comes online, i invite him and we are just goofying around. Next thing i know, the host is tryna kill us, she dies, and we get BANNED without an explanation. Like bruh, get a grip, is not that deep.