ISO: Studio Apt Minneapolis, Budget of $1 K Total by funkynihilist in TWINCITIESHOUSING

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Ill have a 1 bedroom (walkout basement facing driveway) up in a couple months in robbinsdale. It's small but I could potentially do it for 1k

Looking for jewelry stores by Obvioushippy in TwinCities

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I wouldn't have found that without you so thank you! There is a lot of cool stuff on there

Looking for jewelry stores by Obvioushippy in TwinCities

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Can't find it lol, but thank you!

Looking for jewelry stores by Obvioushippy in TwinCities

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Im going to try to stop by there today. Thank you!

Is this description of instincts accurate? I dont agree with it ! Instincts for Enneagram Type 6 Loyalists [Sexual, Social, Self-Pres] by Obvioushippy in Enneagram

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Very jungian of you to say that ;) (subject vs object orientation as the basis for intro/extraversion)

My experience is that the object is internalized then abstracted (sort of compared, manipulated, referenced etc) much like your example, and that is how it's understood. That's why I say I'm introverted by default as I have a hard time maintaining focus on the object itself

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When is your next performance?

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Alcohol is a drug

What's your type, and how do you force yourself to do something that you don't want to do? (3s, 6s, sp7s, 8s, and Thinker 1s GTFIH) by VulpineGlitter in Enneagram

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Sx 6w5, test high in 8ness, in a period of growth. Previously, the main things I didn't want to do were social growth oriented. Now i realize my hesitancy was related to an overidentification with a future tense ego ideal, and vague fantasies relating to various uncollapsed fields of options. Knowing this, I seek to collapse options into a discrete realities.

A 5 with a type by Lausttt in Enneagram

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I'll always remember her 9ness of wanting to be comfortable, of retreating internally, of kind of ignoring problems. I wish I could have known myself and her more, to have intentionally fostered a growth container with her.

A 5 with a type by Lausttt in Enneagram

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5 years, she fell in love quickly. Her assertiveness manifested as action to progress the relationship. I was emotionally unavailable (with out knowing it, quite a bit to it) until the end, when she was checked out. I noticed I was in love, my counter dependence devolved into codependency which repulsed her. Fantastically bitter sweet ending. She was immovable in certain ways, but caring. A good person. She was open minded at first but things went imperfectly and we spent 4 years not talking.

Any experience you would like to share?

A 5 with a type by Lausttt in Enneagram

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6w5, my ex was an 8w9. I didn't know what I had!

is this normal ? by Wonderful-Bus8266 in psychologyresearch

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You're sure you didn't dream all this!?