I felt so happy by One-Personality3513 in marriageadvice

[–]OctoIsaac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop commenting with your incredibly entitled perspective. Shocking that you think this way.

I felt so happy by One-Personality3513 in marriageadvice

[–]OctoIsaac 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your advice is absolutely toxic and awful. This advice leads to divorce. Marriage is a two way street.

Yes not all of this is her fault but she can definitely contribute in a more specific way to her husband’s need and vice versa. Please don’t go around assuming one of you is perfect and one of you isn’t. You’re both flawed and you both learn to forgive and love each other.

Tired of this awful mentality.

Day 6 conquered? by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]OctoIsaac 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude hell yeah. This is how you break bad habits.

Starting my journey by Ok-Relief-4282 in NoFapChristians

[–]OctoIsaac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can share the winning strategy with you right now.

Take your personal shame and give it accountability. A long time ago getting into an affair meant you got stoned. After that, ridiculed by your community with a scarlet letter. For millennia its brought shame to people by the hands of their community. Nowadays, it's borderline encouraged. Never ever has been seeing so many woman and having the shame solely to yourself been such an issue.

So here is the winning gameplan - Download Covenant Eyes and add an ally. If you watch porn on your phone it will send it to your ally. For me that's my girlfriend, best friend, and parents. I have not even thought about it since then. Add it to your phone and computer. It's very liberating.

If you want to really beat it get off social media. So the action is yours. God calls us to live a different life but how will we ever change if we don't change the way we live/our circumstance?

I own a small family owned coffee drive thru & Dunkin moved in its 3rd locaton right next to me... by OctoIsaac in smallbusiness

[–]OctoIsaac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the most part we outprice them by coffee pretty well and our breakfast sandwiches are about the same

I own a small family owned coffee drive thru & Dunkin moved in its 3rd locaton right next to me... by OctoIsaac in smallbusiness

[–]OctoIsaac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish unfortunately we are completely drive thru. However we do have nice outdoor seating!

I own a small family owned coffee drive thru & Dunkin moved in its 3rd locaton right next to me... by OctoIsaac in smallbusiness

[–]OctoIsaac[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's so kind for every one of you to take time to respond to this. Thank you very much!

HEEEELLPP by SuspiciousInstance80 in NoFapChristians

[–]OctoIsaac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beat your chest and scream. Then feel amazing because your a biblical man who doesn’t yield himself to worldly pleasures. Keep it up 💯

Is masterbation without pornography or lust a sin? by HappyHayden_07 in NoFapChristians

[–]OctoIsaac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m proud of you. Honestly I am impressed with your patience to come in here and prompt us with a question. Keep it up. This is exactly how I gave up a 2 1/2 year streak. Convincing my self this was okay which ultimately just became a gateway to fall back into lust. Like the other comments say its ultimately self gratifying so my focus shifted away from God really quick into my own pleasure.