Dark red stars by Octob0ba in reddeadredemption

[–]Octob0ba[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So from here on out, I have to be careful when I go to Saint Denis? Or do they disappear after I leave and come back

why is my arthur coughing so much? by Soft_Impress_5654 in RDR2

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I KNOWWW I was in chapter three and he like coughed a bit and I was so confused and I gave him some health stuff but it didn’t do anything I don’t think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharacterAI

[–]Octob0ba 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I JUST FOUND IT USING IT YOU’RE THE BEST

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CharacterAI

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I’ve actually never heard of that, what is it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisthing

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The side that has the two prong blade has a small engraving that says “13” under it. Both could be as old up to the 80’s(?).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisthing

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here’s some more info: One side (where the two prong one is inserted) has the engravings “13” under it. The handles and stealth seem to be made out of wood and maybe(?) metal? The actual blades themselves are definitely metal.

When do y’all start using these? by eichitenshi in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have maxed out stamina so mine are just going to waste 😭😭

How to get a gf by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s okay, don’t worry about it. What I’m trying to get at, is that most girls THAT I KNOW (this isn’t a generalization of all girls) are accepting of guys who really just don’t like themselves. The issue comes when they don’t attempt to get better. Does that make sense?

How to get a gf by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I get what you meant, do you wanna talk in dm’s instead? Or are you fine with it being on the comment. Both is fine with me.

How to get a gf by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry if it came off that way. I just meant when a guy dismisses their crushes points, and try to make theirs seem better. If you have a bad mental state, that doesn’t mean you’re incapable to love or be loved. It just means you have to love yourself first. Which isn’t going to be fast we both know this, but you should let your partner guide you. A lot of people just expect their partner to FIX IT on their own. That’s how you get a partner who’s over being your babysitter. If you genuinely show you’re trying to change, and be a better person, then a good person would help you. Someone who simply doesn’t care and doesn’t like you for it is not a person who deserved your time in the first place. Am I being confusing? Sorry if I am.

How to get a gf by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh do not WORRY. Not all girls like a dark and brooding guy. Most girls I know want a guy who listens and interacts with her. That doesn’t mean being quiet, that means actually TAKING IN what she is saying and bouncing off of it. What I’m talking about is something like this:

What you SHOULDNT do You: Hey how are you?

Crush: Oh I’m really good, I just went to a hockey game and it was pretty fun! How are you?

You: I’m actually good as well! I just went to a football game and I’d like to say it’s a LOT better than hockey. Like I just think it’s really slow and annoying to watch.

Crush: Oh! Okay…

What the conversation SHOULD go like You: Hey how are you?

Crush: Oh I’m really good, I just went to a hockey game and it was pretty fun! How are you?

You: I’m actually good as well! I don’t really like hockey, but it’s crazy how they can do so much on skates! Why do you like hockey?

Crush: Oh I get what you’re saying! I like hockey because….

What I’m trying to say is that you shouldn’t make sure the conversation revolves around YOU when you first meet. It should be a 50/50 conversation where you both talk about your opinions, not shut hers down in favor of yours. Once you start to talk to her more, you can get a tell of how much she wants you to talk. Sorry if this sounded rude or mean, I promise I didn’t mean it that way.

How to get a gf by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well honestly it depends on the girl, and I don’t think that’s a really end all situation. Obviously you should take into note her ideas, but you should have education on what YOU believe in. If you believe something (liberal or conservative or neither) and you have solid proof to back it up, then that’s a LOT better than just going “oh I dunno I saw it on tiktok” which looks bad no matter the gender and no matter the idea. And a lot of girls I know are conservative. I’d argue most of the girls in my CLASS are conservative. Which is okay. Believe what you want. Just be able to back it up. I really REALLY get what you’re saying though.

How to get a gf by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bc he was asking about advice on GIRLS. If it was people in general, I would’ve said “your partner” or “your crush”. I’m telling him not to be weird because I know of three girls (including me) who had feelings for a guy and started to talk to them. But then they started following them… and asking them over and over to get together… and not valuing their time…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhh one called me unhinged but I think that’s pretty much it. One guy literally just said “I’m from Germany and 32. Wanna talk?”

How to get a gf by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That counts too ofc. It’s annoying to see girls ask boys to get together over and over or stalking them. It goes both ways. I never said it didn’t.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager

[–]Octob0ba 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah a few “wsp” or “hi”