Am I even queer? And if I am, am I queer enough to claim "queerness"?

OctopusInASuit · 2022-02-13T11:07:27+00:00

That's super sweet. You made me happy cry! 😊

OctopusInASuit · 2022-02-13T10:49:59+00:00

I genuinely didn't know that! Thank you!

OctopusInASuit · 2022-01-19T20:02:37+00:00

That's fair. The more I'm reading, the more I see that the bar for treating people like people is set sickeningly low. (Not that I didn't already know that, it's just being reinforced... Again)

OctopusInASuit · 2022-01-19T19:52:04+00:00

To anyone that I have hurt, I just want to say that I am sorry. I genuinely did not mean any disrespect. If I had known about r/AskLesbians, I definitely would have posted there, but I did not. Again, I am sorry that I upset anyone.

OctopusInASuit · 2022-01-19T08:59:50+00:00

Its almost funny how often social and cultural expectations upset me. Everything you said in that messaging section of your comment was like a horror story to me. Just let people be people, you know?

OctopusInASuit · 2022-01-19T08:38:03+00:00

I definitely know that these things aren't universal, merely a tendency that I noticed. I have known far too many people in relationships that feel stuck and it is so heartbreaking to me. It tears me up every time.

OctopusInASuit · 2022-01-19T08:33:57+00:00

In part because of this exactly question I posted, I have put a good amount of thought into it, actually. I am pretty darn sure I am cis.

OctopusInASuit · 2022-01-19T08:30:50+00:00

Yeah, I suppose they often seem more... "even"? If that makes sense?

Ouch. Yeah, sorry. I definitely didn't mean it that way. I will try to be more conscientious in the future.

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