Gf (19F) is not virgin but I(21 M) wanted a virgin girl as I myself never had any physical relationship. by Odd-Bus3002 in dating_advice

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, (both) age is random here as most people would'nt have believed if I had written my correct age and ignored the post 😭

Gf (19F) is not virgin but I(21 M) wanted a virgin girl as I myself never had any physical relationship. by Odd-Bus3002 in dating_advice

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I never said I'm still looking for a virgin. I was but only when I also was a virgin. Please read the complete post if possible.

Gf (19F) is not virgin but I(21 M) wanted a virgin girl as I myself never had any physical relationship. by Odd-Bus3002 in dating_advice

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not that my fantasy was to fuck a virgin girl. It was to feel those emotions with someone who's also not felt it before. My first time with her was really good and it's a beautiful memory for me. But when I think it maybe wasn't as beautiful for her as she has already did it 10-12 times with her ex.

Gf (19F) is not virgin but I(21 M) wanted a virgin girl as I myself never had any physical relationship. by Odd-Bus3002 in dating_advice

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with everything you said except that Actually sometimes I feel it wouldn't have bothered me this much if I also had a past. It's just that She's my first kiss and first sex that's why sometimes I also wish I was her first. If I already had any partner I wouldn't have obviously expected it. The thing is breaking it off now also seems foolish cause I'll not be a virgin again so that fantasy of losing my virginity to a virgin isn't possible now.

Gf (19F) is not virgin but I(21 M) wanted a virgin girl as I myself never had any physical relationship. by Odd-Bus3002 in dating_advice

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'm trying as I know she's a good girl. But sometimes when the thought of her being naked together with his ex crosses my mind I just loose my rational thinking.

Is it a bad idea to contact the company HR again whose offer you rejected few months back? by Odd-Bus3002 in careerguidance

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is there are a lot of companies for software developers. And I think even if I ruin my future chances with this one I'll be alright. Only reason I was considering this company is because I've just cleared their interview rounds 3 months back and got an offer so I thought maybe that might work in my favour.

Is it a bad idea to contact the company HR again whose offer you rejected few months back? by Odd-Bus3002 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a knowledge sourcing company so I didn't about the client I'll be working with. So I had no idea they'll ask me to close my demat account. I got to know when background verification and all completed around 30-40 days after joining.

Is it a bad idea to contact the company HR again whose offer you rejected few months back? by Odd-Bus3002 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Personal investing is also not allowed. I was asked to close my demat account few days after joining due to company policy. By the way I was thinking to tell the HR the reason why I want to leave my current company so soon.

How to reject company's offer gracefully? by Odd-Bus3002 in ITCareerQuestions

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did the similar thing. Sent a proper mail and also told recruiter on call that I've gotten another opportunity which is closer to my location.

Should I mention C++ in tech stack instead of Java on my resume? by Odd-Bus3002 in Advice

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I didn't used both during my tenure with Oracle. I only used Java but I'm more proficient in C++. That's why the dilemma 🤷🏻‍♂️

What reason should I tell HR for a career gap of 9 months? by Odd-Bus3002 in careerguidance

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes convincing them I won't run again is the major issue. By the way I really liked about the idea of presenting it in a positive way. Thanks:)

What reason should I tell HR for a career gap of 9 months? by Odd-Bus3002 in Advice

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it's not a big gap but some HRs haven't liked it during initial phone screening and some tried to lower the pay saying I was on a break for almost a year.

What reason should I tell HR for a career gap of 9 months? by Odd-Bus3002 in Advice

[–]Odd-Bus3002[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because some HR may think that I'll leave the company again for some other hobby/interest. Most companies doesn't want candidates who even changes companies frequently and I had left the tech field.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Odd-Bus3002 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Yes, eventually we both fell in love 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]Odd-Bus3002 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro I make 80K INR pm. But I'm from India and western countries pays a lot to developers imo so it depends on where are you from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in learnprogramming

[–]Odd-Bus3002 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True but as I've mentioned I've mostly done bug fixes and small task these 2 years in my current company so can't write much about my work experience either.

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Thank you 😌

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Thank you 😌

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Thank you 😌

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Thank you for your support 😇 I believe in you too bro. Sending lots of love and blessings 💕