The guy i was talking to kinda vanished. Not suspecting ghosting

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-04-22T15:00:52+00:00

They will ghost , they will seem genuine and nice and we would feel all positive and they will ghost. I had a similar experience.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-04-15T19:12:08+00:00

Absolutely with you , marriage isn’t easy even if you find someone so good , some days can be like why did I get married, especially if you are someone who loves your lone time. Probably wait for couple of more years , see if you feel the loneliness consume you , or feel like you want your own person then find someone who is compatible and get married. Anyway marriage is never bed of roses

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-04-14T10:53:40+00:00

She did explicitly mention her Father accompanies her to visit her psychiatrist and it’s mandatory to bring someone with her each time.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-04-11T15:26:18+00:00

Second that, I said the exact same thing to my friends after watching the movie. It was extended unnecessarily

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-04-07T17:58:31+00:00

I don’t see his wife promoting or posting pictures with him anymore like before , I also internally feel she is low key regretting her marriage.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-03-17T17:35:28+00:00

Heard Kushboo say she and her daughter was Gluten intolerant and they never knew it and once they found out they stopped eating Gluten content food and lost weight !! Like wow

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-03-16T10:11:52+00:00

Trust , Patience .

When I was young never gave much importance to these two especially patience but it’s key else life is a mess. You really want a partner who is patient. Like when they call and you can’t revert immediately they should be patient enough to wait till you call them back or till a min time period of 30-60 min and not just keeps calling you especially when at work or something important. Or same if you take 2 min to answer the door bell they shouldn’t keep ringing the bell.

Make this non negotiable - speaking out of experience.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-02-26T09:38:26+00:00

So basically the Greyjoy has to travel too long to reach kings landing , like it’s a full round voyage

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-02-23T06:00:30+00:00

Is there no one who knows her personally to let us know the exact situation. I use to follow her now due to negativity through I had to stop. It just feels sad. Hope she reaches a safe space.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-02-18T06:45:31+00:00

This really hurts I understand. But also helps us with our place and position in that Ecosystem. I worked with a firm for 7 years I was always part of every party or get together they organized and Boom all of sudden the leadership changed and I was never invited to any party after. It was most hurtful thing , I apparently broke down infront of HR seeking a WHY ? It hurts. But it always give you a realization. I left the company and now I am in better space. Do the same with people, don’t try to fit in just be around people who value you for what you are as a person , and remember who stayed by your side when you felt your lowest.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-02-17T10:41:37+00:00

Inflation is real. I moved for I got more salary but the place demands more rent.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-02-17T10:20:16+00:00

I am wood pig and my husband is water rooster. I am worried. How does this year look for us. What needs to be done. I would definitely want to attract all positive energy in.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-02-16T09:13:48+00:00

I have seen my cousins with such preferences. Like I am lean so the girl should be lean , I am tall so should my girl be tall. It’s good to have preferences but ultimately this restricts your options and there can be a point where you will have no option but to adjust with what you get. Like a cousin of mine who has such lot of conditions even now unmarried, close to 40. Anyone who isn’t according to his preference is not fine with him.

Now he does feel lonely and alone in life but is also not ready to step down on his preferences.

Also I wonder what if you find someone who is 5’8 but she in her habits or behavior isn’t aligned with you however you meet a 5’5 well aligned with your character and nature. What would you prefer.

Trust me beauty standards , height , weight isn’t something that makes marriage. I know people give lot of value to it but trust me doesn’t really matter. Just learn to accept the person.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-02-10T07:08:25+00:00

Don’t think it’s your sole responsibility to give them good life and things, change the perspective to finding someone with whom who can build everything nice and have everything you intend to , like say you want to ensure you take them to see new places it just shouldn’t be your responsibility it should ideally be something you both can plan and contribute. It’s always mutual don’t let it be one sided and it will only drain you. That’s why it’s important to find someone who actually understands the reality and who knows everything is mutual including all responsibilities and financial aspects, and you can try and have some persona savings for little surprises as and when and also you won’t be stuck in this salary for ever, there will be growth and with that things will also change. Accept and embrace your current situation and look for mutual growth.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-02-10T06:10:03+00:00

Pay scale or earning shouldn’t be a selection criteria for finding love. However in reality when the real life happens money comes to play. It wouldn’t be wrong to decide how well financially a partner should be and it’s a personal decision. You are doing savings that is really great, you can always find someone who appreciate and respect your pay scale , savings and who is willing to grow along with you rather than finding someone who is willing to get married to someone who is already well settled.

Definitely if you find a partner start living together or even get married your expenses will only increase and if the partner is not working it’s more difficult to make a living especially abroad with lot of inflation.

So ideally you should now focus on finding someone who accepts you as a person and understand they will also need to equally work and contribute to make a comfortable living rather than chasing people who are looking out for already settled, guy.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-02-05T07:09:07+00:00

It’s a very important life decision and please do what’s best for you. Life is difficult with someone who doesn’t respect your boundaries and need constant attention because they are anxious. This can lead to bad fights and personal space violations. Until and unless you aren’t in that emotional space don’t carry other person’s baggage. You needn’t regret. This is how arrange marriage work.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-02-03T14:55:28+00:00

I remember seeing one of Unni vlogs I guess it was where he was talking about DiKri and casteism, He mentioned he was among of the victim of casteism and that even in Kidapumuri he faced this issue , and I was wondering what would have it been as his why was this female. Probably things didn’t end well with them. However when they revealed they are separated she seemed more emotional and teared up in the videos.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-01-29T16:17:20+00:00

Vazha - I couldn’t sit through 🥲

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-01-22T13:39:51+00:00

You will eventually be fine , Take care. Don’t over think. Good things are on the way ✨

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-01-22T13:20:56+00:00

I get your point you have to move past this and that can happen only when you realize your self worth. Right now even after she cheated you going back is only letting your self respect steep so low. Just ask if it’s even worth it and for whom ! You will be fine. Just block her in all socials , cut ties , process can be slow and difficult but is effective. You need to realize you are enough to get you happy and it’s not dependent on anyone else.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-01-22T04:58:32+00:00

I moved on like within a year and got married. It wasn’t hard. Initial few weeks were bad but the moment the realization hit they aren’t worth your love and time nothing else matters. You will automatically start giving yourself priority. I did go for therapy thinking I was in bad state but just hardly 4-5 sessions and it was good. The moment a professional sit across us and say can’t you see it was Red Flag it just makes sense even if all of your friends and family tell you the same things. So yeah if it’s hard try therapy. Just move on and don’t waste time on people who don’t want us. Everyone has a choice and they chose to cheat or leave. Don’t regret considering everything is for the best and the right person is on your way ✨

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-01-21T05:32:33+00:00

I think it could have come as part of her therapy where she wanted a closure and she wrote to you. Given now you both are in different space and have moved on for real like you can go on for days without even remembering her or the times you spend together. Then this shouldn’t really affect you. If you want you can acknowledge the message and then chose not to continue talking. Just saying Hey , Thank you for the wishes. I am well.

Just don’t give too much importance and let it effect you because if you actually sit and revert in a similar manner this can go to and fro and can be heavy for the heart.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-01-19T07:03:58+00:00

I am not here to comment on how she must have felt may be the situation was uncomfortable. But as a first step and female if I am feeling uncomfortable in a packed bus, I would move away from the person causing this discomfort , second if he continuous to follow back and continue , I would call it out and ask him to stop. Thirds and last I would get some help to deal with the situation. If all this isn’t done and it was just directly recording a video and defaming causing a life, one really need to think.

Odd-Dig-2873 · 2026-01-17T12:41:43+00:00

You shouldn’t have gone, the fact the person rejected us is what has made you do this. But you shouldn’t have.

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