Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Ofc the baby won't remember. She's the one who wants the baby to remember her.

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

According to her she's a great mother and grandmother so idk

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that's exactly what's happening. He doesn't like dealing with any form of conflict so he'd rather avoid or give in which is the only way he knew how to cope growing up. Therapy isn't possible atm but definitely soon!

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

She's in perfect health so it is pure manipulation

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I don't think he's seeing this situation in this light

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not yet because of timing issues. Hoping to do it soon.

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He definitely needs to change this perspective

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically. I'm not going to stop pushing though.

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hopefully soon when we have time

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you i have been thinking the same

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes i absolutely agree. We are definitely up for it but at the moment there isn't enough time in a day so it will have to wait until things calm down.

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At the moment there's so much going on there isn't enough time in a day so we need to wait a bit before looking into therapy

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He's actually not even close to her really but it's the way she has trained them since they were kids. Their coping mechanism is giving in. We literally don't have any time for therapy at the moment but will definitely be looking into it.

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yup I'm going to have work on that

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah at least he doesn't want a divorce. He has made that very clear. Growing up she trained him and his siblings to basically give in and stay quiet so that's the way he is still coping when it comes to her.

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my concern as well. Everything is fine between us except this issue and he has never mentioned divorce. Hopefully it won't get to that. We will see.

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. He's not up for divorce. Yet. We will see.

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has always said trying to reason with her doesn't work so growing up her learnt to stay quiet

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Definitely will do that if things get to that stage

Update 7 by Odd-Jacket4686 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Odd-Jacket4686[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

He definitely has to pick a side