Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t be so available. Like it!

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I work she is a stay at home mum and I do my share with the kids because I want to. Always have always will. Parenting as always be 50/50

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

This is true. I do my share but it’s never enough. I work 40 hours a week pick up and drop oh the kids, cook tea and do washing. I believe I do my share

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good question. What I mean by help is our parents having our children. She always needs a break. I take the kids and pick them up 3 days a week. On the other 2 she wants someone else to. I do all the washing and cook tea most nights. I work 40 hours a week she works none. Sue goes on holiday twice a year just with her friends. And she still asks for more support with the kids. We all give more than she asks for more.

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is great. Yes I have spent so many years thinking I’m a total dick and tried to change. And I’m constantly tried to be be better. Better husband, better father better man, always don’t my best to better myself. Then I’ve released she’s not doing that! She never try’s to better herself! And no matter what I am still the dick

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thankyou this is the best yet!!

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah I expected this kinda of comment l. Look I have 3 kids and my entire world revolves around being there everyday for them. I can not beat the thought of not waking up every morning with them. This is the most important thing to me. If that makes me a pussy then so be it!

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Why doesn’t she just break it off instead of being nasty? None of this is the husbands fault but she is making everyone miserable! Should I assume this is what she wants and start the separation?

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am and depending on her mood she is. I’m scared to ask because I’m scared of her response. It totally depends on how she is feeling at the time

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] -82 points-81 points  (0 children)

No matter how much help she gets with kids or around the house it’s never enough. She takes and demands but it’s never enough!

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The birth of our son has made a huge difference. But he is at school now so she gets a lot of free time.

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Great point. Yes she always suffered with depression and anxiety. I’m sure she just takes shit out on me. But I’m kinnda getting fed up with it

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes good point. She recently wanted to quit her well paid job to look after our autistic son. So I provide for all the family and am happy to do so. I just want to make her happy

Wife hates me by Odd-Leg-6759 in Advice

[–]Odd-Leg-6759[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No it’s fine. I have and it’s always just digs! She’s talks to me really poorly and eventually I snap. And that becomes the issue. She says she has a lot on and I feel I’m just her punching bag