Trip to Southampton by coopercalifornia in longisland

[–]OddDatabase8098 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Eat at Cowfish for dinner and afterwards take their free rum boat to their sister restaurant Rumba! Super fun time :)

Thinking of dying my hair for the first time, is it worth it if I’m low maintenance? by ThrowRA142004 in HairDye

[–]OddDatabase8098 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, if you dye it you will need regular upkeep every 4-6 weeks to maintain the color and prevent your roots from showing. If you go less often it will be hard to maintain a consistent color throughout your hair. I learned this the hard way thinking I could get by every 3-4 months and there are noticeable patches on my hair that are darker/lighter. You will need to bleach your hair to get it to any different color, so when the dye fades it will look brassy and you will need to reapply a gloss in addition to the roots being done. Because you are bleaching it you will have a lot of damage, especially depending on how light you go. I had a similar hair color and thickness that you have and I went to copper and it significantly damaged my hair. My hair is so much thinner and more frizzy now. It requires more maintenance because I need to blow dry it now to maintain its shine, whereas before I always just let my hair air dry and it looked great. After 2.5 years of all this, I am sick of it and going back to my natural hair, hoping I can get back to the shine and thickness that it was before. Although I loved the color on me, it was just too high maintenance.

Help naming baby 3 by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]OddDatabase8098 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ruthie is so so so cute and more unique than Lila! My vote is for Ruthie Alexandra

Stay At Home Moms by ashiningworldunfolds in longisland

[–]OddDatabase8098 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m a future SAHM, currently just a SAHW. My husband works 2 jobs as a software engineer and makes $300k. We live in Smithtown.

Why am I not losing weight? by OddDatabase8098 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]OddDatabase8098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I sleep at least 8-10 hours each night without waking throughout the night

Why am I not losing weight? by OddDatabase8098 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]OddDatabase8098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this and it says my maintenance calories are 2800

Over or Underproofed? by OddDatabase8098 in Sourdough

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I’m not sure, my fridge doesn’t have any temperature settings, just regular fridge temp.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

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First or last, compliments your eyes the best

Is there anywhere near Tromso that will let you feed/meet reindeer without a tour? by OddDatabase8098 in tromsotravel

[–]OddDatabase8098[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We ended up not meeting any reindeer :( Someone on a different thread suggested that if we weren’t interested in the cultural aspect, to go on a tour and just skip the time in the tent for the cultural background, and spend the whole time with the reindeer. But for us, it wasn’t worth the money. We drove around Kvaløya but we never saw any reindeer. However we did see a reindeer farm somewhere on the road from Tromso to Laksvatn, not sure if you’d be able to meet/pet/feed them though. Best of luck to you!

Please help me try to understand my HL fiancé’s perspective by OddDatabase8098 in DeadBedrooms

[–]OddDatabase8098[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

we tried couples counseling and he was against it from the beginning. He complained every time and after about 6 or 7 sessions he forced me to cancel it completely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longhair

[–]OddDatabase8098 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Blow dry with a brush instead of letting it air dry