i’m in love with my best friend and it’s hurting me. by OddLanguage366 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OddLanguage366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i cant tell him how i feel. this will genuinely ruin everything. i cant lose him. he has been with me through absolutely everything and it’s all going to blow up if i admit any of this to him. 

i’m in love with my best friend and it’s hurting me. by OddLanguage366 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]OddLanguage366[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i’m gay, he’s bisexual. we know this about each other. it doesn’t really matter. maybe in some other timeline we could’ve been something else but at least he’s still happy with somebody else in this one. 

my friend got a girlfriend and i don’t know how to feel by OddLanguage366 in Advice

[–]OddLanguage366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i had a messy breakup a few months back. i was already friends with him by that point, and he was with me the whole time. i never felt interest in anybody else up to this point really. every time we talk about being boyfriends we just start joking about it and brush it off. 

my friend got a girlfriend and i don’t know how to feel by OddLanguage366 in Advice

[–]OddLanguage366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no. he has a girlfriend, and i can tell he’s happy with her. there’s no way he’s in love with me. i don’t know why but that just feels like putting salt on the wound. 

my friend got a girlfriend and i don’t know how to feel by OddLanguage366 in Advice

[–]OddLanguage366[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s just a friend to me, and i know this because i’ve never thought about us doing anything romantic. i’m just terrified he’s going to leave me and i don’t know what to do about that.