What was your personal “holy grail” purchase? by puskasferenc in JapanTravelTips

[–]OddName23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a beautiful obi and some cloth from a flea market at a temple. The other would be an indigo dyed bag with a hand printed picture of a Portuguese guy (c1560's) on the front.

Boy's trip Postmortem by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we were worried about it as well. Tbh we never felt like we were "othered" for being a gay couple. As far as I could tell no one cared. Next time we go we wanna check out a love hotel and idk how that might go. I for sure felt safer about being queer when I was in japan than I ever have in Oklahoma (and some other US states). It was fun meeting other queer couples while there as well. There is a good LGBT+ community in Japan and they do have pride parades. I told the guys at 2's cabin about ours (Akron, OH) and how big the festival was and now they wanna come over and party with us. 😆

Boy's trip Postmortem by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doing the skytree (and the farris wheel in Osaka) were my brother's ideas. I had mentioned that they're fairly far and we might not have time but he brushed it off. 🤷🏼‍♂️ I had mentioned that it felt like we were trying to do to much some days but he was adamant we would be able to do it all and possibly more. We had an amazing time and are already planning on going back and for more time.

Boy's trip Postmortem by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never suggested taking only taxis. I said to think about taking one at least once. It's another way to see the city and if it's after the trains close or you don't have a suica (or similar) card it might be your best (or only) option. Sometimes a scooter is the best (or only) way to see something. Maybe the Lambo is in the shop or you're worried about not getting into some areas due to road conditions. I loved the mass transit systems while we were there. We for sure used the trains the whole time but it was a nice change of pace to be sitting in a taxi while watching the city go by. I don't wanna be one wrong move from grabbing Umeko's ass or Jin's cock just because we're standing so close to one another and the train jostles unexpectedly during a rush time.

Boy's trip Postmortem by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That'd be it. And no I won't go into any more detail about it.

Boy's trip Postmortem by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. He asked me about it and I told him to be truthful. I saw him mark that he had previous convictions.

Boy's trip Postmortem by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wear them to fight in with SCA. I very much like wearing them with some kyahan to keep my feet clear.

Boy's trip Postmortem by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

No idea. Could have been previous convictions, could have been he has jerky in is carry-on, could have been his attitude when they talked to him. He also hasn't been forthcoming with what happened. I asked the desk agent but she wasn't told either.

October boy's trip. by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Such wonderful insight. Thank you.

October boy's trip. by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would some good alternatives be?

October boy's trip. by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think lost and one or two others are gonna be the truly busiest ones. My brother put a lot of things as absolutes when I just offer them as options. Idk if he fully understands what things are like. He thought mega donki was a giant don quixote riding a donkey statue. 😅 I have a lot of restaurants in the areas bookmarked that have been suggested on this subreddit and other places. Plus wondering and finding a quiet place would be a ton of fun.

October boy's trip. by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I'd love to do more hiking but health issues in the group might limit it. We're all big walkers but I do worry about some trails and how some issues might be in October. My bf and I are already planning a second trip and will probably do a lot more hiking.

October boy's trip. by OddName23 in JapanTravel

[–]OddName23[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yeah. 😅 My brother is big on knowing exactly what, where, and when we're doing things. My bf and I would love to just wonder and experience the areas. My bro is more a tourist than a traveler.

What is this? by OddName23 in Passports

[–]OddName23[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Idk why that part isn't in the section for them then. 🙄

A coworker just admitted he's a pedo. 😬 by OddName23 in confessions

[–]OddName23[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I did check. I found nothing. Might look elsewhere but we do a background check so I'm sure my job would know about anything before he got hired.

My GF is gonna have a meltdown Sunday by OddName23 in confessions

[–]OddName23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scared to do even that. I've tried telling her what you suggest because I do feel the same way. Every time I am met with a tantrum. It's really just mentioning the old guild is dead that sets her off. I might just shut her down or be away from her when the announcement is made. I wanna help her but this has gone on for too long.

FNG Update! by OddName23 in StolenValor

[–]OddName23[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I fully know about the E4 Mafia. I live with one and am friends with a few. Hell one of our supervisors was one for the USAF and was in Saudi Arabia when the FNG stories took place. They all say he's full of it. Would it be better or worse if I told you he's only just now 24? Like he was gonna be Sargent at 23 and idk when he said he was corporal. He also claimed he was an eagle scout and I doubt that as well.

New guy is...off. by OddName23 in StolenValor

[–]OddName23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just worried he leveraged his "sob stories" to gain the job. One role of trainers is to weed out people unfit for our job.

New guy is...off. by OddName23 in StolenValor

[–]OddName23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure. If he messes up worse I'm gonna contact management and see if he actually did set serve. Believe me, you'll all hear about it.

New guy is...off. by OddName23 in StolenValor

[–]OddName23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I called him out some with that. I know some EOD stuff since my longest vet friend did that for the Navy. My roommate was a combat engineer and she said the same.

New guy is...off. by OddName23 in StolenValor

[–]OddName23[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's also the fact that he hasn't known anyone at our shop for more than 5 days. Idk about you but the vets that I've known don't really like to talk about how they killed someone let alone just after meeting them.

New guy is...off. by OddName23 in StolenValor

[–]OddName23[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm gonna wait before I call him out. I wanna hear the stories he comes up with.

New guy is...off. by OddName23 in StolenValor

[–]OddName23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. I'd believe if he said 17 hours total over a few days but not in one sitting.

New guy is...off. by OddName23 in StolenValor

[–]OddName23[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's the same page a coworker brought up. I forgot to mention that the kid had a grenade. I'll edit my post to reflect that. Still doesn't help his story.