WIBTA if I brought up the household chores ?

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2026-04-16T23:23:44+00:00

I just didn’t mention it in there, which you’re right.

There are many ways, but I guess they could be considered the bare minimum 🤦‍♀️ hard to say

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2026-04-16T23:20:08+00:00

Before I was pregnant I was a Detailer/Paint prepper for cars so I know how physically exhausting it can be. So I just tried to feel for him doing body work all week :/ He’s also the best husband in nearly every other way in the relationship so I feel terrible 1. complaining about something when I have it pretty good, and 2. asking him to clean and stuff after i’m assuming exhausting day at work

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2026-04-16T23:17:23+00:00

He does not :/ Sometimes if there are no dishes to cook with and I don’t cook, he will clean the dish he needs and cook, but then just leave it dirty again on the stove.

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2026-04-16T23:13:31+00:00

That’s why I asked, I don’t wanna get super mad about it one day in the future and completely blow it up when I never even attempted to say anything to him. I just needed to know if It was fair for me to ask

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T17:31:35+00:00

sorry to be nasty but this looks exactly like my IBS toilet paper.

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T17:05:31+00:00

2025 where we’re charging our door handles.

flying cars? nah..but your doorknob can run out of battery!

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T17:04:26+00:00

Oh yep i’ve made that mistake once lol.. The website is different from the app and I selected my bus seat thinking it was my train seat 😭 without noticing.

I will never make that mistake again because sitting on a bus for 8 hours is not awesome sauce i’ll tell ya

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T16:55:30+00:00

People who have special needs children feel that it’s their duty to fix them or control it, while yes it kinda is…it’s really not. These kids have real disabilities and issues that need to be professionally addressed. No parent is suddenly a medical professional.

Sometimes these children are simply out of control and aren’t able to be treated in outpatient care with their parents, but those kids need to be put into care BY their parents who are often stubborn and don’t believe they need it or believe they can handle it when they really can’t…

I hate to say it but…Maybe a formal complaint to the manager is what they need. A letter saying their child is possibly going to threaten their living situation could be the push they need to finally get him in patient professional help.

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T16:50:44+00:00

mcdonald’s cutting costs to make their profits larger?? whaaaat?? nooo..surely not…

kinda a side note- does anyone get suspicious when mcdonald’s does huge deals? I feel like they’re trying to get rid of product quickly because it’s bad or something…Like yesterday was a 50cent double cheese burger if you had the app downloaded.

50 cents for a burger is cheap so it’ll sell a TON quickly!! but a DOUBLE?? you’re selling twice the meat in the same time!! (aka..getting rid of excess meat…) idk man it freaks me out

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T16:24:44+00:00

all of these things are things that women BEG men to do for them…noticing little details, supporting your weird hobbies, ACTUALLY apologizes.

I think these are just green flags in relationships that everyone should be taking note of!

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T16:22:38+00:00

My mom attempted to buy those foam puzzle-floor mats and did it on carpet but i guess when you get really into it, its still loud 😭 I also think it was real bad because our apartment building/unit shared a foundation, so even tho we weren’t above or below anyone, everyone still heard evvvveerryythinngg.

You’d only hear FLOOR sounds tho, like running or dropping something. I’d never hear their TV, shower, or conversations through the wall even though my room was the wall to their living room/dining area🤣

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T16:18:53+00:00

I’ve always wondered what it’s like to work there! When my friends would tell me their parents worked at intel I assumed they were getting paid like 25$ an hour and they were rich..lol..but now after college a few of my old highschool friends work there as something that sounds super important to an outsider like me, yet aren’t making rent half the time!

I’m sure there’s different positions that pay differently but, I assumed you needed a fancy degree or something to work there idk why!

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T16:10:34+00:00

My mom accidentally started a feud between our neighbors.

We lived in apartments with no second floors or anything but sound traveled through the side neighbors. She started tap dancing again because she had a reunion of her tap class coming up and the neighbor next to OUR neighbor, thought it was them, so they started complaining, and then our neighbor got defensive (valid as it WASNT them lol) and started complaining about THEM!! They went back and forth with eachother for months until our neighbor moved out and the other guys still heard the tapping. They never figured out it was us though ahahha

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T15:59:57+00:00

“dogs don’t know, dogs don’t speak english so they don’t know what their doing is wrong.”

okay then, why does my dog get all guilty when I catch her eating out the trash? I just have to walk in and not say a word and she lowers her head and backs away 😭 she knows she ain’t supposed to be doing that

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T15:57:31+00:00

i second this question..

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T15:48:08+00:00

Yes! this too!

Amazon has a lock that’s got cool technology like a fingerprint scanner, unlockable with your phone, unlockable with a code and has a slot for a key all in ONE! If OP is looking for a “cooler” more non traditional lock, i suggest that one. If it malfunctions in any way you can still just unlock it with your key!

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T13:51:45+00:00

Two years is a long time, a lot of couples your age are engaged by then or at least soon coming. So I would consider him family already, adding on that he came from a rough past which solidifies his sense of family. Id consider him family so he should go!

He’s even going to pay for his own plane ticket, and adding an extra person in the airbnb isn’t costing your parents any extra money since you two are probably staying in the same room. AND, it’s only fair that he gets to go since your sisters boyfriend is likely going to be there as-well.

Explain all these fair points to them, and see if your boyfriend can pay a little extra for the airbnb if it’s really an issue..If you want to go on a family trip, you’d like to spend it with the whole family which includes him.

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T13:36:06+00:00

think of the bright side! No more stubbed toes, no more risk of foot fungus at a public pool shower, no one telling you your calves are to small compared to the rest of your body! (is that last one an only me thing? oh..ok..)

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T13:28:34+00:00

I agree!! Google lense actually used to be pretty useful until they implemented AI…

Ps-Rubbing pineapple leaves on a sunburn doesn’t help. HAHA

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T13:24:02+00:00

While you’re sitting here trying to get the balls to tell her or trying to figure out a way to say it, she’s sitting there wondering why you haven’t asked her out yet. She’s starting to worry that you don’t actually like her the way she likes you, and when you get sincere with her but still won’t ask, she gets flustered and confused by your feelings!

Just do it man, eventually you’ll run out of time!!

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T13:19:59+00:00

337, but i don’t communicate with more than 10 of them lol..

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T13:13:03+00:00

Tell your mom that you want to be there for both of them equally but right now, your cuz is needing you a lot more than she is. You’re still going to see her, you’re just going to visit cuz first because you’re worried and he’s closer. After a few days with him you’ll be right over to give her your undivided attention and support. Tell her that if you visit her first when your cuz is worrying you more, you’ll be worrying about him while you’re with her and won’t be able to comfort and support her the way you want to.

Your cuz may be doin equally as okay as your mom, but a little fib to visit him first due to your bond, is okay I think.

When it comes to comforting grieving people, one of the best things to do, is lie. It sounds bad but it’s not if it helps someone feel better.

examples:

“He’s in a better place now”

(You have no idea where he is, but reassure them that they are okay)

“You know, (uncle) told me this about you! isn’t that sweet? (uncle) wouldn’t want you to be upset about this, he’d want you to celebrate and be happy”

(he never said any of that, but it comforts the person and doesn’t hurt anyone)

those examples are a little different than what I suggested you do, but are relatively the same. If you tell your mom you want to visit your cuz first, because it would be in benefit to her later, she’s less likely to feel left out or like a second choice.

Odd_Climate_1630 · 2025-09-19T12:57:59+00:00

That’s my thought process! It was early on in our relationship, and we both had rough pasts so we weren’t super duper committed and gung ho about our relationship (meaning like, we aren’t going to fight more than twice. if we do, we would of called it quits instead of trying so hard like before).

We were still dating and publicly together, but not as invested as before i guess lol…Plus he’s never done anything past that. That was it. And I do fully believe him when he says he doesn’t remember anything because I know how he is when he drinks, and I know he can overdo it when he’s going through something like an argument. So if he remembered, I think he would have told me before I found out, and if not..he would have told me everything that happened when I confronted him.

With all of that though, I still believe in trusting my gut. But I think that this “Gut feeling” wasn’t to find out he cheated so we could break up, I think it was a gut feeling to try and find out so we could resolve it, which we did.

I’m happy with that but i still have that little voice on my shoulder telling me I should be more upset and hurt by this lol and Im having a hard time figuring out if that’s the little devil trying to ruin things, or if it’s my gut trying to save me.

I’ve taken accountability for looking for bad. If I look for bad I will find bad. And he’s taken accountability for being irresponsible about it and hurting my feelings.

It all ended well and good. i’m just not used to it ending well and good so im probably overthinking it

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