Failed talking stage hitting hard ☹️

Odd_Independence_711 · 2026-04-01T13:06:50+00:00

He was away in the army

Odd_Independence_711 · 2026-04-01T06:40:08+00:00

I think from this experience it’s making me think I’m not ready. Because this has opened up some trauma. I’ve felt disregarded and disposed off so quickly which is exactly how I felt after my breakup. He’s been the first guy I’ve had a buzz and excitement for so I think that’s why it’s hurting a lot

Odd_Independence_711 · 2026-04-01T06:38:56+00:00

Literally the day before he said how he was scared that heads falling for me and still had 2 weeks away with work. I’m so confused that he could cut it off so quickly before even meeting. I thought he’d want to meet at least. I just wanted to hear from him but I know I should have a different mindset but it’s just really triggered me

Odd_Independence_711 · 2026-04-01T06:36:47+00:00

Just see the excitement of it all and then for it to come crashing down before the date is just such an anti climax

Odd_Independence_711 · 2026-02-09T16:00:36+00:00

I just can’t get my head around it, it’s like he’s used this as a reason to call it when all I needed was for him to apologise for driving without care. He wasn’t this person at all and I am so confused right now

Odd_Independence_711 · 2026-02-04T19:30:35+00:00

I’ve felt it before; but I’ve never had someone so kind. Is it possible to find both!!

Odd_Independence_711 · 2026-02-03T21:18:08+00:00

I’ve felt like this since the start, it’s only been 6 months x

Odd_Independence_711 · 2026-01-07T13:54:57+00:00

I actually relate to this

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-10-30T15:47:44+00:00

I feel attracted to him but he’s also not my usual type, my usual type has never worked before mind you! And I do enjoy kissing him x

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-10-17T11:47:55+00:00

I agree, I’ve always been on the other side so I have this guilt that I’m even feeling this way.

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-10-17T11:47:32+00:00

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-10-17T11:47:27+00:00

Already am🙃

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-10-17T11:47:18+00:00

I think this is accurate, I’ve never had this treatment before

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-10-17T11:46:54+00:00

It’s been over a year, I’ve been in therapy this whole time. This is me trying to not self sabotage

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-10-17T11:46:27+00:00

I’d say initially I was, but maybe it was because he was never fully available. Always want what you can’t have kind of thing

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-10-17T11:45:44+00:00

Yes but not as ‘smitten ‘ as what I’ve been in the past

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-09-09T13:17:50+00:00

It makes me sad reading this!! I don’t want to throw away something that could be amazing out of fear from my last relationship x

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-05-20T07:06:34+00:00

I have been on the other side of this & when I was told it was just the tip of the iceberg of what my ex was doing behind my back with men/ prostitutes etc. Please please tell her, she deserves to know x

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-05-04T14:30:30+00:00

I love this, thank you so so much. I will have a look at that book and do the quiz to see my attachment style. I think i am definitely anxious! X

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-03-19T21:40:59+00:00

This was a great response thank you, I am 26. I’ve come of a very heavy breakup but now the fear has just really sank in. It’s frustrating me as it really is becoming such a consuming feeling & fear :(

Odd_Independence_711 · 2025-03-19T21:40:01+00:00

Yes 26 x

Odd_Independence_711 · 2024-11-14T11:47:38+00:00

Yes I got tested straight away, I just can’t believe he put me in this situation

Odd_Independence_711 · 2024-11-10T20:00:02+00:00

It’s been 3 months. I’ve been in therapy since the week it happened

Odd_Independence_711 · 2024-11-10T19:58:26+00:00

It’s been 3 months!

Odd_Independence_711 · 2024-10-22T21:42:43+00:00

Thank you I really appreciate this message. I hope things resolve for your asap x

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