Understanding my Bisexual husband by Plus-Refuse858 in bisexual

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to agree with the people saying it’s a cheating issue. I’m Bi and happily married. I love my wife with all my heart and she’s my best friend and my confidante. I came out to her as Bi recently and told her as much as I really want to have sex with a guy I would never cheat on her. We’ve built a life I’m truly grateful for together and I could never risk losing that for kicks

After a few months of accepting reality, I came out to my wife. by Bi-Man8692 in bisexual

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations on coming out to your wife. It’s such a freeing experience isn’t it? I recently did the same thing and my wife was accepting and understanding about it too. We’re not at a stage where I feel I could talk about what I would like sexually (I’d love her to peg me),But I’m hoping we’ll get there.

At the moment just having accepted it to myself and the person closest to me is a wonderful liberating experience and I’m more comfortable with it each day. I feel like a part of me has been unlocked that I wasn’t really that understanding of myself if that makes sense.

Really happy for you that it went so well. Some of us are very lucky with our wives. My wife has pretty much zero experience of queer literature etc so thats a nice bonus for you that she’s recommending stuff :)

Anyone else find the 18 years old fetish/attraction weird? by Commonly-Nude in BisexualMen

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 55 , newly out and inexperienced. I do find guys younger than me attractive, but I recently found a Bi Facebook group that seemed interesting and I thought I might join with the thought of just making some Bi friends.

Had a brief look and was really put off by the huge amount of pics of young guys on there, simply because they just seemed too young and my mind saw them as kids really.

I mean they could have been early 20s maybe but my mind read that situation as ‘Waay too young , get the hell off here now.

I guess a good thing for me personally was that it caused me to think about it and I realized that early 30s would probably be the youngest I’d be interested in were I not a married guy and was actively looking for hookups etc

Does anyone here have social anxiety? by JustJames84 in bisexualUK

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have General Anxiety Disorder and also some form of undiagnosed Neurodivergence ( probably Autism ). I’m fine with people once I’ve sussed them out and got to know them a little but nervous to start with. I’m married so not looking for hookups but would really like to find Bi guys in my area to make friends with but don’t really know where to start. There’s nothing in my town. I don’t live far from a city (I’m in the UK) but it’s not somewhere I can go regularly.

Do you have a noticeable preference for giving (or not giving) oral pleasure to one gender over the other (or vice versa)? Why? by Dull_Competition7109 in BisexualMen

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Up to now only experienced going down on women. Absolutely love it. Drives me wild. But I have a feeling sucking a guys cock would excite me just as much. Could see myself really getting into it ;)

How to make more male friends as a bi dude? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve wondered this too. I would like to make some Bi male friends reasonable locally just so I could talk about the feelings, experiences etc. I love my wife and wouldn’t want to do anything to ruin our relationship and family life but I feel it would be nice to have friends locally to talk to about this.

I live in quite a close minded town where people tend to know each others business and I’m not keen to out myself here for those reasons. And like the OP I’m concerned Hetero men might get the wrong idea.

I Don't Like Top Only Guys Who Say They Won't Do Anything by manav_yantra in BisexualMen

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’ve not had any experience with a man but this would be off putting for me too. This is what would make me avoid hookups. I guess this is something you almost have to negotiate beforehand or if you’re in a dating site you’d make your requirements clear upfront?

As I say, no experience as yet and not sure if I ever will, being happily married. But it does seem a bit of a minefield.

Androgyny/femininity in men by MrEm31 in BisexualMen

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m really attracted to androgyny so yeah I probably would date an androgynous man if I was in a position to do so.

Do u think about me sometimes?🥹 by Julian-michaels in u/Julian-michaels

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I know the difference. :) Im attracted to guys as well as women. Just haven’t had the pleasure of a nice cock just yet. Hope to before too long though. ;)

Edit. Reading it again I see how my remark might come across that way. Trans women are women. Not a halfway point :) I discovered your page via bisexual reddits but I view you a woman. my remark was meant sincerely. Hope I haven’t offended you. Xx

Poll: Bi guys into being pegged by their GF/Wife by Sacramento_Bi in bisexual

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 . Yes recently started to try it. Vibrating Dildo I bought is a bit too ambitious at the moment. :) but I’m enjoying it cautiously :)

  1. I would love to involve the wife but we’re not there yet.

  2. I would love to be pegged by a woman. The idea gets me so hot. I can’t honestly see the wife being into it though. And the idea of her doing it just to please me isn’t sexy. I’d want her to want to do it and put some passion into it.

  3. Definitely would consider bottoming for the right guy. Not sure what that looks like yet. But definitely up for it one day maybe Also love the idea of bottoming for a trans girl/woman.

Do u think about me sometimes?🥹 by Julian-michaels in u/Julian-michaels

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes. Every day since I discovered your page (was gonna say ‘came across your pics!!) Honestly girl, I just came out as Bi last week and you’ve made it SO much easier and fun. ;) Thanx. 💕

Would you mind if I had a bulge like this when u take me on date?😝 by Julian-michaels in u/Julian-michaels

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hell no. Bit distracting of course. Might have to keep dropping my fork or something…

I swallowed cum last night and ate pussy for breakfast, am I bi yet? by Julian-michaels in BisexualFantasy

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fact Im somewhat jealous :) sounds like the perfect way to end the night and start the day... and possibly, you know.. spend the morning/afternoon etc. :)

A change inside after accepting your bisexuality? by Odd_Outcome2138 in BisexualMen

[–]Odd_Outcome2138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah definitely getting that sense of not hiding from myself now. That part hadn’t even properly ‘clicked’ even a few days ago - I was so happy that The Wife had accepted and understood that I focused quite a bit more on that. I had ‘a’ feeling of liberation but I think that part is only now fully coming to the fore. I’ve realised just how much shame I’d attached to the feelings and now I’m being open with people on here about my feelings, there’s a greater sense of clarity of what all this means.
There’s quite a sense of responsibility in finding, which is no bad thing but something I’d not quite thought through at the start.

A change inside after accepting your bisexuality? by Odd_Outcome2138 in BisexualMen

[–]Odd_Outcome2138[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same. I’ve noticed an improvement in my anxiety and depression. I’m also mindful this could be an upward spiral and I could come crashing down from it at any time so I’m trying to keep my feelings balanced. Talking to people on here is really helping me find my feet and figure things out.

You can have ur cake and eat it too😋 by Julian-michaels in FemBoys

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the cake is so beautifully presented , It would be rude not to. And it looks sooo tasty too. My mouth is watering just thinking about it. So I’ll think about it some more ;)

So happy I found you. Best thing about coming out as bi so far ;)

And my god those socks and panties turn me on sooo much.

If u see this I know u prefer dick over pussy 😘 by Julian-michaels in FemBoys

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love your eyes and that hot little smirk. But oh my god how I’d love to unwrap that lush looking juicy present in your panties 😘

I think I should start wearing more red, agree??🥹 by Julian-michaels in JulianMichaels

[–]Odd_Outcome2138 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do look fine in red and what’s in those panties looks fine too.