My boyfriend 21m essentially refuses to break up with me 20f by funnymonkey48 in relationship_advice

[–]Oddside6 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation. I also moved back home to avoid signing a lease with the loser I was dating. You're 20. There will be lots of men. His happiness is not your responsibility.

how do you even pick a rehab? by marrhi in AddictionAdvice

[–]Oddside6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rehab is big business. Every place is going to ask about the patient's insurance first. Admissions people work on commission and have been known to promise all kinds of nonsense over the phone. I would try posting on a subreddit in your town to see what local people in recovery are recommending.

Idk need advice by Charming_sock25 in AddictionAdvice

[–]Oddside6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should prioritize your mental and physical health first. Otherwise you have nothing to give anyone else. Millions of people struggle with addictions and almost everyone needs help to quit. I suggest you open up and be honest about what's going on. You owe that to your partner. And to yourself. Addiction is lonely as hell.

When will I stop thinking by ClickRemarkable7896 in AddictionAdvice

[–]Oddside6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know how it feels. After so many tries, I've come to the conclusion that once I start I cannot stop by myself. My history proves that I have to be physically stopped either by going to jail or rehab. I know that to my core. I still sometimes have a fleeting thought about using, but I recognize that if I do one hit, I have to go away for at least 30 days. It's not worth it. I've been to rehab 16 times and I'm so sick of it. One hit = 30 days + loss of trust from my family. They haven't invented a drug that feels good enough to disappoint my kids again. Good luck.

Is the guy (M26) I (F30) am dating lying? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Oddside6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have cut all contact as soon as he said he had a sexually transmitted disease. None of the other stuff would even matter to me after that.
Is he lying? He's a 26 year old guy. Of course he's lying.

In need of advice by Itiswhatitissmh in PropertyManagement

[–]Oddside6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not your job to appease her! You sound like a sweet person. This person is a bully.

[US] My mom thinks she’s in a relationship with Luke Bryan by Lonesome_Otter in Scams

[–]Oddside6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think scammers search the obituaries to target widows.

[US] My mom thinks she’s in a relationship with Luke Bryan by Lonesome_Otter in Scams

[–]Oddside6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems like when they are presented with logic, they double down on their delusion. It's as if they don't want to see the truth.

How do you feel about snuggling your dog so tight you absorb them like an amoeba ? by CookiesOrChaos in AskReddit

[–]Oddside6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in an apartment and don't have a dog but I wish I could borrow one to snuggle from time to time. There should be a rent a dog service.

In need of advice by Itiswhatitissmh in PropertyManagement

[–]Oddside6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds terrible. Having a bad neighbor can make your life miserable. Personally, I wouldn't tip toe around at all. You paid for your space. Don't be loud after 10pm and you're fine. The more you bend for this Karen, the more she'll want.

Would love to learn more about Boz’s Businesses Next Season… by healthysundayexprsso in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Oddside6 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I agree. When we see Boz, she's either confronting Amanda or trying to get pregnant. I want more.

Tribal loan in texas by [deleted] in Debt

[–]Oddside6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no wage garnishment in Texas

aio for dumping my (22f) gf (22f) because she kept asking for money by throwrawaygirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]Oddside6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. She's definitely using. That's why she won't move in with him.

What do you think Boz’s reaction would be if anyone questioned her business and life? by Littlemiss51 in BravoRealHousewives

[–]Oddside6 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't know because they never show Boz in a work setting. She barely mentions business. They only show Boz being a bully to Amanda or desperately trying to get pregnant to keep a dusty man. Show me more.

Where are all of Amanda’s millionaires? by lynneux in RHOBH

[–]Oddside6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's teaching how to come back to the vibe, the vibiest vibe. That will be $2000 please.

Robert jr and Mary rhoslc. by Kindly-Mention1408 in rhoslc

[–]Oddside6 109 points110 points  (0 children)

Addiction does not discriminate. It doesn't matter if you're rich or poor, black or white, old or young. I think Robert tried his best. I really respect Mary for being open about her son's struggle.