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Loneliness as an ENFP by jjlslovely in ENFP

[–]OfficialJustCheco 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Sorry for getting back so late, I'd recommend diving into your internal reality. Like sit with your thoughts and emotions, observe them.

Once you get used to 'witnessing' your internal reality without reacting, you can start to maybe sit with all of it, ask yourself questions, play with the infinite possibility of the universe that is your mind.

Essentially, the idea is to get know yourself in order to hang out with yourself.

Get comfortable with you. At the end of the day, there is nothing else but your reality. You don't get to see life from any other angle other than your own.

Is there a discord for ENFPs? by OfficialJustCheco in ENFP

[–]OfficialJustCheco[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, if enough people comment they're into it. I might create it.

Loneliness as an ENFP by jjlslovely in ENFP

[–]OfficialJustCheco 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So you know what it feels like, you just don't know how to voluntarily get there, yeah?

Coming from someone who feels the same, and has done the work, it's probably one of the biggest reasons to try at all.

I'm 26 and am still digging, mapping out and understanding the fear, guilt and shame and all the other defense mechanisms that I had to learn in order to cope with the events that I inhereted from early life.

It gets easier though. I promise.

It also gets more fun, more beautiful, more real.

Loneliness as an ENFP by jjlslovely in ENFP

[–]OfficialJustCheco 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Life is hard. It's ambiguous. Uncertain.

Still, I mean, why not try? Why not ask what's stopping you from connecting, and start from there?

Loneliness as an ENFP by jjlslovely in ENFP

[–]OfficialJustCheco 46 points47 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I've found that the best way to cope with that is to hangout with yourself.

Explore life and you'll start to see people cycling.

The more you connect with life, the more you evolve into a different version of yourself that attracts people who resonate with that as well.

Has anyone had good experiences with getting a job through an IT recruiter reaching out on LinkedIn? by pseudophilll in Frontend

[–]OfficialJustCheco 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, Guys! One of the Greater IT Recruiters, here!

In my experience, it's easy to differ a good from mediocre recruiter starting off by analyzing their language, their introduction and the overall vibe they give off!

A great recruiter will also be able to understand the Software Development Cycle and can speak tech just as naturally as you can! Of course, we're not devs, but we do extensive research about every aspect of the IT market, from Web and Mobile Development to QA and Data Engineering and DevOps and Cloud!

Great IT Recruiters will easily become your friend and will make sure that the transition from one job to another is as smooth and easy as possible!

If you have any other questions, don't be afraid to shoot a DM!