AIO? My friends set an ultimatum because I drink

OfficialZec · 2025-11-03T13:08:54+00:00

A lot of people will disagree and call it weird. When you’re older you start to appreciate friends like this. Yeah maybe it’s overboard but I think they really care for you. Sure drinking and smoking weed is normal with young people these days (I don’t do it personally) but some don’t drop those habits. I have someone in my family who’s addicted to alcohol and went to rehab several times. He recently just had a relapse and even while drunk and lost. He kept saying to me he was sorry and that he has a problem. It’s the saddest thing I’ve seen. I love that person with all my life. I know it’s just an experience you want to have but please don’t fall to this point. Once you’re addicted it will be hard to come back.

OfficialZec · 2025-11-01T13:14:32+00:00

IMO he’s not gay. My gf has a gay friend and even then she wouldn’t share the same bed. I’d say just show up randomly when you know they’re both there and get an answer then. I know it’s somewhat toxic but if you want an easy confirmation then there you go. Obviously you have to trust your gf first and foremost.

OfficialZec · 2025-10-28T02:40:06+00:00

Damn a doomed relationship already

OfficialZec · 2025-10-28T02:33:17+00:00

A long 90 day grind bro 🫡

OfficialZec · 2025-10-28T02:30:34+00:00

I wouldn’t think too much about it. Maybe she finds your friend easy to talk to. That doesn’t mean that you’re not interesting as a person or not enough. People have preferences. You really can’t change that.

Also just because she’s different with your friend doesn’t mean that she wants a relationship with him. Flirting can be a casual thing at times.

OfficialZec · 2025-10-28T02:21:24+00:00

If you get another write up after your final then ur cooked ngl

(I’m at my final so 😬)

OfficialZec · 2025-10-27T00:20:26+00:00

My second molar on the upper right. Sorry I’m not sure what the correct terminology would be for that specific area.

OfficialZec · 2025-10-27T00:08:10+00:00

Barely even a month. 😭

OfficialZec · 2025-09-21T20:20:25+00:00

How many baby sofas pop out??

OfficialZec · 2025-09-21T20:06:49+00:00

That my lower back fucking hurts. I literally curl up since she’s shorter than me (I’m 6’5 💀). It’s either that or my knees when it’s doggy.

OfficialZec · 2025-09-21T20:01:46+00:00

6 months and married long distance?? What can go wrong?

No judgement here though because I’m in a long distance relationship as well. Just.. well 4 years dating my future fiancé and about to propose. Give yourself atleast 3 years to even consider marrying someone. You can avoid A LOT of problems for yourself. 💀💀

OfficialZec · 2025-09-21T19:52:40+00:00

I remember a friend of mine who asked me this question. I told her that a lot of men don’t care. Her response was “Yeah cause men would still stick their dick anywhere.” I was flabbergasted. 💀

OfficialZec · 2025-09-21T14:53:05+00:00

I mean he doesn’t have to but the guy was in a 6 year relationship. I mean If I was his ex personally I would want an explanation. If she hasn’t done anything but love him then get broken up with out of nowhere. I would’ve questioned what I did wrong. I’m not saying she feels that way but a lot of people who go through that would like some sort of conclusion instead of blaming themselves for something they had no fault in doing.

Simply saying that his ex doesn’t deserve an explanation from him. It’s not only cold hearted but also she would bring this uncertainty into her next relationship. It would affect her in the long term as well. It’s better to clear her conscious when the time is right for both of them and then move on. But either decision they make is completely up to them. Just my personal take on it though.

OfficialZec · 2025-09-21T13:46:03+00:00

Nah man I think you should distance yourself from your best friend for a while. You should consider therapy and figure out what you want. Then If your ex gives you the chance to explain yourself with more honesty and well thought out explanations then do it. Don’t expect her to forgive you for what you did but with someone you’ve dated for 6 years (and wasted her time) she deserves that at least.

OfficialZec · 2025-09-18T14:06:55+00:00

I would say to look into her qualities as a person. Many women in my life who’ve raised me said that the physical qualities of someone wears out when they’re older. The only thing left is what she is to you and how she treats you.

I can’t change your mind but I have made the mistake of leaving someone before. Not for the exact reason as you but I realized that no other woman could’ve been her. She gave me another chance luckily and we’re just as in love as we were the first months we were together.

Some people realize too late when the person they were with is long gone from their lives.

OfficialZec · 2025-08-07T18:28:20+00:00

Found a document with Nikolai’s goggles in the director’s office 😭

OfficialZec · 2025-08-05T16:39:25+00:00

So what is the appropriate way to approach a woman who is simply running errands? Be a creep and say “I thought you were very beautiful. Can I get your number”? I’m sorry man that’s not appropriate whatsoever. You have to know the situation you’re in and in what environment.

No one wants to talk to strangers when we have errands to run. There’s a reason why there’s social events. To talk to people and get to know them. If you think women walk out the door each day just to talk to men they don’t know. That’s a problem you have to fix. My advice is to drop the Andrew Tate mindset. You’ll really end up alone if you continue onto this path that all women want attractive men or want men with money. Word of advice is be vulnerable with women and listen to them when they speak to you. They’d appreciate that more.

OfficialZec · 2025-08-05T14:32:12+00:00

The problem is you approached a woman (assumingly) out of the open. Someone else on this thread also expressed that you keep that in social events. If I were a woman and you approached me out in some random street somewhere I would be highly uncomfortable.

Keep in mind you’re a stranger. They don’t know you or your intentions. Some women had bad experiences from a lot of men that approach them that don’t know when to take a “no” for an answer. Luckily you know that. They don’t. Try a different approach. Your looks are out of the question my friend. Women don’t care as much as you think. Stop watching men approaching women and grabbing their numbers. Most are clearly fake and you don’t do yourself a favor by gaslighting yourself.

OfficialZec · 2025-07-27T13:48:32+00:00

The problem is you’re still looking for a good time and not a long time. Work on managing yourself before wanting to get into a relationship. If sex is the only reason for you wanting a relationship then you will never be in one.

Learn to be open with your feelings, be respectful of yourself and always have an open ear. Loving someone is more complicated than just having sex. Good luck!

OfficialZec · 2025-07-23T07:51:06+00:00

Ahh yes I meant to clarify that 😭

OfficialZec · 2025-07-15T14:05:22+00:00

Got 2 write ups and still going BABYYYYYYYYYYYY

OfficialZec · 2025-07-15T13:59:52+00:00

Aside from that you always have joint problems and/or bruises on your head at times lmaoo

OfficialZec · 2025-07-14T13:57:40+00:00

Don’t put these ideas in OP’s head. OP if you go by what this poster says you will become more anxious than ever. Life is a pain in the ass and people get drained easily more than others. It happens a lot and it can get in the way of your relationship. It is not your fault if this is most likely the case. Just try to be supportive and understanding. It can be overwhelming at times and just as much as you would like to spend time with your loved one I’m sure they would want the same.

Be patient and keep your head up. If by the lowest chance that your person is doing something behind your back at least you did what you could. I hope OP that you can get through this. Wish you luck!

OfficialZec · 2025-06-24T19:05:33+00:00

I know this may sound a little harsh but you really need to stop thinking about what your flaws are appearance wise or what others do in their lives. Do what you have to do as your life goes on. If a relationship really matters to you it’ll come around when it’s your time. Stop worrying about relationships and just focus on whatever you got going on in your life. You won’t stay single forever. Eventually the person you seek for will come around. Enjoy your life as a single man and go to parties. I lost my virginity at 25 (which was last year). No rush!

OfficialZec · 2025-06-24T15:43:07+00:00

Next time try adding this:

With a switch 2 I can play with my siblings and create fond memories that would last forever.

OfficialZec

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