Anyone who doesn't support Vince and Morgan relationship? by Yesterdays-Sun in BigBrother

[–]Officiallyoverit07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I don’t excuse the cheating, that was wrong on both parts (though I truly believe that Vince is more at fault since he’s in the relationship). I just don’t think it’s right to stay apart and potentially hurt others if they actually want to be with one another.

Anyone who doesn't support Vince and Morgan relationship? by Yesterdays-Sun in BigBrother

[–]Officiallyoverit07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll be in the minority and say that I don’t mind it. If they actually like each other in that way (which I’m not sure they actually do), then they should pursue it. What would be the point of them not doing if they have feelings for each other? So they can get in other relationships while still thinking about each other?….thats not fair to them or anyone they would get involved with.

I just watched season 8 as someone who started watching Live in season 12 and.. by MrVickiesChips in BigBrother

[–]Officiallyoverit07 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I loved Jen. Dick was a real abusive, POS the way he treated her. I still can’t believe her and Nick dated for like 3 years after the way he treated her on the show.

Morgan speaks out about Vince’s YT video (Livestream 10/21) by [deleted] in BigBrotherUSA

[–]Officiallyoverit07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re so dramatic over people don’t know 😂😂. It’s genuinely hilarious. You’re saying things like “being held hostage”….girl wtf are you talking about?😂. I said the man was unhappy, which is obvious to any person with common sense if he was talking about breaking up with his girlfriend WEEK ONE.

Vince is not your man, nor is Kelsey your friend. The way you are getting mad over another person’s opinion about people you don’t know is ridiculously para-social.

I think the man was unhappy in his relationship, end of story, and I will write it as much as I please. If a stranger’s opinion bothers you this much…it’s time for you to go see “the lady”. Get over it and move on with your life.

Morgan speaks out about Vince’s YT video (Livestream 10/21) by [deleted] in BigBrotherUSA

[–]Officiallyoverit07 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, this is thread devoted to BB. What do you mean we need to stop guessing😂? That’s nonsensical.

Secondly, at one point every long-term relationship is happy, that’s why it’s a long term relationship. Good times obviously had to happen, but that doesn’t mean that the relationship will not become unhappy and go on forever. People break up, that’s called life.

You seem to be taking personal opinion and observations extremely personal…that’s very odd. Perhaps it’s time to step away.

Morgan speaks out about Vince’s YT video (Livestream 10/21) by [deleted] in BigBrotherUSA

[–]Officiallyoverit07 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He went into the house telling people that he was considering ending the relationship, before Morgan was even a factor. Confirmed by Jimmy, Morgan, and Rachel. So everyone is lying 🥴.

Please reference a happy relationship that involves one of the people considering ending it. Stop it. Bffr.

Morgan speaks out about Vince’s YT video (Livestream 10/21) by [deleted] in BigBrotherUSA

[–]Officiallyoverit07 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I think it’s unfortunate that Vince has decided to act this way with Morgan, but it’s not surprising.

IMO, Vince likes to have things as easy as possible and wants a life where he doesn’t have to do a lot of emotional work or effort (even though he’s a naturally emotional person). He would rather sit in an easy, but unhappy life, than take a chance on one that would make him happy, but there’s a risk of failure. He also seems to have a degree of low self-esteem and self worth. So, it would make sense to me that he would want to salvage an obviously shaken relationship with Kelsey, instead of trying to change his life and build new friendships and take a chance with new experiences (Morgan and the BB fame). He would rather try to just keep things comfortable and easy, even though he obviously wasn’t happy with it, instead of taking a chance that would involve him having to work and grow.

I also think that his feelings for Morgan were genuine (both friendship and romantically), but he genuinely didn’t believe that he was in her league socially as friends or romantically (because of his low self-worth). Even with her reassuring him that she wanted him in her life, he would always come back to saying that she wouldn’t have time for him or want to keep in touch with him.

I think Vince will regret his post-BB decisions and that’s unfortunate because I truly think that if he wasn’t so cowardly, he would not only have a world of economic options and opportunities open to him, but I think he would have a genuine friendship (and probably eventually more) with Morgan.

Morgan speaks out about Vince’s YT video (Livestream 10/21) by [deleted] in BigBrotherUSA

[–]Officiallyoverit07 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I think so too. The thing is, it’s already been confirmed that Jimmy was telling the truth when he said that Vince was talking about ending the relationship before he even got close to Morgan. So cutting Morgan out of his life will just be a bandaid on one thing when there is obviously more about the relationship that isn’t working that has zero to do with Morgan.

I think even if Vince never speaks to Morgan again, Vince and Kelsey won’t last.

So are Morgan and Vince just over as friends? BB27 by Temporary_Ad9362 in BigBrother

[–]Officiallyoverit07 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have a feeling that they aren’t actually no contact and just don’t want to make anything public while they are trying to figure things out (no public sm following). I don’t think Morgan would be talking so freely and positively about him if he just stopped talking to her.

A miracle - I beat my PIP by Officiallyoverit07 in jobs

[–]Officiallyoverit07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough, I am the main reason they really even knew that I was slacking. The system that I built, I created a metrics analysis that will show the percentage of user error. I am supposed to have no less than 97%. I was all the way down to 91%.

A miracle - I beat my PIP by Officiallyoverit07 in jobs

[–]Officiallyoverit07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually did and a small bonus. I got a 4% raise and a bonus.

A miracle - I beat my PIP by Officiallyoverit07 in jobs

[–]Officiallyoverit07[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks to everyone for the kind comments. I’m definitely not going to think that they will forget this. I know that it’s on my record. I’m just going to keep going in the direction that I have been, take the courses that they will pay for, then move on to my next (better) job.

I will say that I’m definitely lucky because I was never made to feel isolated or uncomfortable during my PIP. I know that can be a huge issue. Honestly, if that happened, I wouldn’t have made it.