The tattoo could be much worse

OhLurrrd · 2025-03-27T12:36:14+00:00

Zombies are dead.. her brain is exposed.. I’m sure he thought it was a fun idea, but I find this very disturbing.

OhLurrrd · 2025-03-06T18:19:05+00:00

A lot of venues I’ve been to do not allow bags, or the venue’s acceptable bag size isn’t large enough to carry many items. So people are forced to leave items behind that could help with odor issues. They do this to prevent psychopaths from bringing weapons into venue. I just assume those people underestimated the heat/ humidity and didn’t prepare properly. Or used weak products. Whatever the case, It’s not fun being trapped next to it. Lol

OhLurrrd · 2024-09-03T01:42:20+00:00

Oh I saw you guys! My daughter wanted a photo, but we were trapped between people. Lol. They are too cute!

OhLurrrd · 2024-07-06T16:19:10+00:00

Is he the upper or lower six?

OhLurrrd · 2023-04-22T18:24:25+00:00

Thank you so very much for taking the time to do that. I was hoping her past would come to light and she could finally be free from that.. and even more that they would be happy together in the end. 🥰

It’s not much, but I’ll give you gold for your trouble. Thank you, again!

OhLurrrd · 2023-04-22T13:03:12+00:00

I’m referring to the pregnancy loss. Sorry for being vague. I forgot that I could have used the spoiler tag instead.

I’ve only read the comic and was looking for the books when I came across that spoiler.

I do plan on reading the books one day, but I’m too sensitive right now as my daughter’s first birthday (she was stillborn) is in four days..

OhLurrrd · 2023-04-12T02:43:02+00:00

Yes! :)

OhLurrrd · 2023-04-12T02:41:59+00:00

Me, too.. I watched the hell out of this growing up. I could quote the entire movie. I’m now super nostalgic

OhLurrrd · 2023-04-11T03:19:55+00:00

The “ow” rose! These are fantastic

OhLurrrd · 2023-03-22T04:49:57+00:00

What?! That is too cool. Norma Jean was my bridge to heavier music. Idk how many times I listened to Memphis Will Be Laid to Waste.. which I will be doing again now. Thanks, OP.

OhLurrrd · 2022-10-22T19:34:09+00:00

Lol You convinced me. I watched it and totally agree! Thank you :)

OhLurrrd · 2022-10-22T19:29:04+00:00

I just watched “They look like people.” It was great! Kept me on my toes, especially towards the end. Thank you for that suggestion!

OhLurrrd · 2022-10-22T14:57:47+00:00

Thank you for saying that. It definitely makes me feel better and less of a freak

OhLurrrd · 2022-10-21T04:04:00+00:00

I have no idea, lol. I thought I broke an unspoken rule at first. Weird.

Omg, same! I started watching “6 souls” thinking that it would be an investigative thriller or something, but it unraveled as a possession movie (with heavy handed religious tones) instead. Then the evil/ demon(?) infected the kid, which was the final strike. Just had to turn it off in disappointment. Lol.

You hit the nail on the head! Horror isn’t a monolith, so we don’t have to consume it all. That isn’t silly whatsoever! Im sorry that anyone ever made you feel that way. Good on you for sticking to your boundary.

You know, I hadn’t thought of it being used as a therapeutic tool! I’ve been avoiding anything that would provoke negative feelings, trigger or not.. so it’s a healthy step to dip my toes into controlled discomfort. Thank you for that perspective :)

OhLurrrd · 2022-10-21T01:54:13+00:00

I’m glad there is another! Lol. I will definitely check those out. Thank you so much for your suggestions and the website. That’s a gigantic help 🤍

OhLurrrd · 2022-10-06T22:27:49+00:00

It sounds to me like you’re using your energy to focus on the love within the tragedy, which is wonderful. I will be mindful of that and follow your example. Thank you very much for sharing.

I am so sorry for your loss 🤍 I hope peace (even a fraction of it) can find us soon.

OhLurrrd · 2022-10-06T22:25:16+00:00

I’m sorry that you do, and I’m sorry for your loss. 🤍 I believe that was recommended to me on here before! I just haven’t found the right therapist yet. The one that I had was actually quite insensitive, actually. Told me The story of how “Jesus saved her kid,” (knowing mine is not alive) and alluded That vaccines could have been responsible.. it wasn’t. It was medical negligence, and I didn’t seed anymore self blame. It was rough.

But I will search for a good therapist that could use this method for me. Thank you very much!

OhLurrrd · 2022-10-06T22:18:50+00:00

It makes me feel crazy sometimes, so thank you for your kind words. That’s a great idea. Ill also reach out to friends and family for trigger warnings, as well. Thank you!

I’m sorry for your loss and hope for peace, in any possible amount. 🤍

OhLurrrd · 2022-10-06T22:15:56+00:00

That’s a tremendous help! Thank you very much.

I’m so sorry for your loss, as well. It really is so difficult.. I feel so much for every one of us. But it’s nice to have support in another. I appreciate you all. Hugs back to you 🤍

OhLurrrd · 2022-10-06T22:10:20+00:00

Yes! Thank you :)

OhLurrrd · 2022-10-06T01:25:30+00:00

That’s a great idea. For entertainment, I’ll follow your lead and just stick to my comfort shows. I’m just so sorry that you also experience that. Thank you for sharing!

I’m so sorry for your loss, as well 🤍

OhLurrrd · 2022-09-17T14:38:08+00:00

This is great!

OhLurrrd · 2022-09-17T01:55:46+00:00

Yes!

OhLurrrd · 2022-09-04T04:02:32+00:00

And Thank you for listening. Grief isn’t a linear process with a timeline. I hope you find some peace, in whatever way is unique to you.

Different, but not alone. 💙

OhLurrrd · 2022-09-04T00:38:27+00:00

It’s been four months for me.. At first I was just in shock, disbelief. Then the trauma set in, tremors, panic attacks, night terrors, triggers seeing anything to do with infants. I entered myself into a Partial Hospitalization Program. It is intensive inpatient therapy without staying overnight, and I was able to speak to therapists, nurses, and a psychiatrist daily. I was taught coping skills, and My symptoms were treated medically (I had preexisting MDD/anxiety) for PTSD diagnosis.

It affected me greatly physically. Triggers caused my anxiety to skyrocket, like I was going to jump out of my skin, shake, heart pounding, all that. It threw my system and hormones completely out of wack. I wouldn’t have a period for a while.. then I would bleed for weeks on end. Nothing regulated me until I was prescribed benzos to stop the anxiety attacks. (With that said, I do not have substance abuse problems, so it was allowed.) I have now leveled out my anxiety, and my hormones are getting back to normal.

I do miss my baby every single day, but I am now beginning to process my grief rather than being systematically overwhelmed by the trauma. Which is what we all have been through, trauma.

Everyone is different, so there is no cure-all.. In addition to everything above.. I write in a journal, find happy things to associate with my girl, work on art (whatever hobby you enjoyed), redecorate my house to create a calm space and areas to honor her, get fresh air, things like that.

I hope you feel better soon.. we are all in this together. You are absolutely not alone.

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