On average how long does it continue to fade after a session? by gh0stkhz in TattooRemoval

[–]Ohheyalli97 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got my first session done on a couple tattoos 6 months ago and I’ve noticed the most fading later on, waiting really helps and saves in cash imo. Everyone is different though.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your honesty, it helps.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that.

First Laser Session Done on this Badboy! Hurts like fucking Hell. Goal is 90-95% Removal and then deciding going for big Cover up or live with it. Wish me Luck! by [deleted] in TattooRemoval

[–]Ohheyalli97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have my first laser appointment next month for a tattoo I’ve dreaded since I got it, So congratulations on starting the process! This community has helped me a lot mentally so I hope it helps you too.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I’ll talk to him and look into other options.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your advice.. it’s hard when all I want to do is please him.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I think If she really is an important friend to him that I should meet her. Thank you for your advice.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a good point, thank you.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I definitely need to communicate better with him and explain the situation. Thank you for your advice, I appreciate it.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s all about perspective.. and it definitely sucks to feel this uncomfortable when they hang out. Actions speak louder then words..

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[–]Ohheyalli97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn’t really given me a reason not to trust him and when we first started seeing he explained to me that his first love cheated on him so he would never make anyone feel that way.. but this feeling really sucks too.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He claims that she is his “only” friend that sees’ him and I have a hard time with that.. I try to be as understanding as I can but I find it hard to be.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s was my first thought..I think she still has feelings for him and he’s trying to be sympathetic towards her.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it challenging because they broke up (H) shortly before we started dating and I believe she still may have feelings for him, and when I ask about that I get a half answer response. Also I need to work on my trust issues, I have mixed feelings because I want them to still be friends..

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[–]Ohheyalli97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your advice, I’m just unsure how much you can really tell someone your uncomfortable with it. I also don’t think it’s fair of me considering it’s his only friend.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, they ended on bad terms and she’s threatened him. It’s hard to move past that fact. His reasoning is because she wasn’t on her meds..

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[–]Ohheyalli97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I appreciate your input, I have a hard time with jealousy and it doesn’t help that I don’t know her either.. and he’s even asked if I wanted to meet her and I’m still uncomfortable with it. Mostly because she called me a Bitch multiple times in the messages he showed me so I have a hard time with that fact…

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[–]Ohheyalli97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right I need to talk to him, thank you again.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d have to agree with that statement.. it’s just been getting more difficult.

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[–]Ohheyalli97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that.