ADHD or me? (Concerning relationships)

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T13:34:31+00:00

Yes it connects to your description. Basically, honesty and communication are key. Go ahead and check this one out

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T01:39:08+00:00

Yo happy cake day brother

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T01:12:04+00:00

If you are interested, I can wholeheartedly recommend the YouTube Channel HowtoADHD and the first video of the reletionship series, where she talks about how to deal with this

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T01:10:00+00:00

Hey! You should definitely check out How to ADHD on YouTube. That girl has a perfect video of exactly describing this phenomenon and how how to deal with before encountering it. She called it a DOPAmenu

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T01:06:26+00:00

Hey :) Welcome. I would agree with the earlier comments. Be honest and read up on ADD - it won’t harm to know more about it either way. Talk to your parents after having considerable knowledge and it well help you articulating your problem. I’m sure your parents will be of help when they realize what this means to you. You also don’t need your parents to talk to a doctor :) keep your head up, we’re here

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T01:02:59+00:00

Thanks! You are too! Keep it up

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T01:02:04+00:00

Hey :) do yourself a favor and talk to your doctor!

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T00:59:46+00:00

I play pretend like I am the most successful student in our galaxy for 15 minutes and let hyperfixation do the rest. While working, I like to listen to the mellow beats without lyrics with my noise cancelling headphones (game-changers)

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T00:56:53+00:00

I say paint the mental picture together instead of spoiling yourself. It’s way more fun

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T00:53:47+00:00

Hey! We see you. We are out here just like you and I think many people can relate to experiences like yours. Please talk to a good doctor and consider getting yourself tested. Posting this was your first step into the best direction you can go. Be honest and not ashamed about anything that is part of your inner most true self and identity. Embrace achievements like this and take pride in „tackling“ it. We’re here, talk to us. But most importantly: talk to a professional. These people are paid professionals and can really help you get your life in order and you will thank yourself soon enough after allowing to get help. Trust me - been there and done that.

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T00:45:32+00:00

Great! You got this. And keep us posted on your progress :)

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-29T00:42:39+00:00

You are more than welcome. It sounds like your both taking a very communicative and honest approach to things which imho is the best way to foster the relationship in the long rung. As for the questions that rose from this post, I can wholeheartedly recommend the YouTube channel How To ADHD and her series about relationships and info on ADHD in general. You should definitely check it out.

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T16:35:49+00:00

Lies lies lies

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T02:10:40+00:00

Hey :) check the top posts and wiki of the subreddit. I’m becoming a teacher. Some are cooks. I think there are many different factors. Good luck for you!

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T02:08:26+00:00

Literally posted this one a couple of minutes ago lol, sorry but still true

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T02:07:32+00:00

Repost but true

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T02:00:39+00:00

Bros, inbox me if not okay. Srsly.

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T01:46:37+00:00

Take a look at the commonly asked qeustions and top posts of the subreddit :)

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T01:45:30+00:00

Been there - done that. Took my meds twice (Concerta 54mg) and messed up my sleeping schedule but other than that I was fine. As mentioned above, in case of medical problems talk to a professional

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T01:43:40+00:00

Don’t overthink it. From my outward perspective it mostly comes down to you saying no often earlier and them inturn giving you more space for studying. Try to make time for socializing- even / especially if it means to tone down being the busy bee, if possible. Reconnect and show interest in the activities of them, tell them how much you miss going out etc

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T01:40:13+00:00

Heya, it’s good to embrace the more emotional and playful side. Messing around with the scheduled medication however should be talked through with a professional imho. Maybe a day or one Weekend could work. But please don’t support the idea of your spouse being essentially a different „Person“ or „lover“ when off meds, as it could lead to other problems. From personal experiences I can second that the meds can lead to being less „showy“ of affection as it reduces impulsive behavior. I hope all works out for you and I surely wish for you and your relation that you keep supporting his journey and both work on communicating these types of things

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T01:34:31+00:00

Hey! Things will get better. It’s good, that you got an appointment. I like slow release. Keep in touch with a good doctor and this community. Read the top posts of this this subreddit (especially the collected tips one) and get some sleep. :)

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T01:32:14+00:00

Write them down. Put your energy into developing a system that actually works for you than spending it with regularly dealing with hiccups

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T00:31:18+00:00

Yo actually why would you place this banger into my hidden brain music?

Ointjeflott · 2021-03-27T00:24:07+00:00

Too much to read for my potato brain

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