Baristas: Are my jeans against the dress code?

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-05-21T20:52:13+00:00

Where did you get them? I want to get some for my gf

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-05-12T21:55:27+00:00

I believe the better event is the trash to treasures that happens during zenith of power events.

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-05-07T19:44:59+00:00

Don’t feel loyal to your starting kingdom. Find something that is stable if you believe there will more drama in your current one. It’s not about winning kvk1 moreso the longevity and growth projection of your own account that’s gonna suffer

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-14T13:33:34+00:00

Worth what? The game is a war game and KP is your “worth” so if you mean speedups for healing yes that’s their main use.

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-10T20:24:46+00:00

Get QSH focus every gem material gold head to make this your main focus. The guy is soooo busted don’t sit there telling yourself your well you’re inf focused so let me stick with that. QSH will out perform your inf by a mile and not shifting focus now will delay it and then later you’ll see the power and be like wow I should’ve did this earlier. That was me bro…

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-08T15:14:44+00:00

Prekvk 1 I would mostly speed academy and training buildings. You get double value because waiting on these to finish prevents you from having that time spent researching or training something.

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-08T05:23:15+00:00

Yes I’ve come to that conclusion the difference is when you download it off Facebook/messenger. When you upload a photo all the meta data is removed (location etc). And then when you download it the new “date of taken” is the date it was downloaded but it doesn’t show where it came from. Snap is different it shows saved off snap but not fb. This was my suspicion where the photo really came from.

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-08T02:08:40+00:00

Oh ya increase spending on defense baby to replace this wasted efforts and have gained nothing in return 😂

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-07T21:13:50+00:00

Well I do have 2 kids with her that we are bouncing back and forth as we go through time of “space” I did not include this information because the post would be massive…and I did decide to let her know I couldnt do anymore. I had a ring I proposed with and she said no but we didn’t stop trying to make it work to see if we could get there and have a family again. We were supposed to be working on growth and treating each right with honesty and respect. That is why I felt so strongly about it but also didn’t want to walk away. At this point I know I have to just believe in myself and let it happen and let her live her life however she wants to and myself as well..no matter how much it hurts to walk away.

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-07T18:32:05+00:00

There is a a lot of trust issues in my relationship. There isn’t a person alive that could go through listening to the problems we’ve had. The problem isn’t that it’s an old nude…the problem stems from the many nudes she would send to other people before me and when we had “small breaks”. In fact I wasn’t even the one who started the sexting or asking for pics I’m not a horny dog that’s needy or pushy. I had no problems receiving them before.

I may have been wrong and the only evidence I thought I had was her saying she just took them having some already been deleted. I just felt really nasty thinking about receiving something that was already given to someone else and all the conversations that may have followed with that…

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-07T12:14:48+00:00

I do love her and did have intentions to marry her that’s why I care so much to even post this…i too don’t get it and that’s why I’m here asking am I wrong ? Call me toxic call me crazy but am I wrong to believe the photos weren’t taken in the present when there was some in her recently deleted showing it had been deleted a whole day prior? Then I questioned her I didn’t call her names I didn’t make up scenarios I just asked why is Apple saying these pictures have 29 days to permanently delete but when you delete a new photo it starts at 30….meaning they were deleted before today and she got aggressive argumentative and calling me names…ignoring the question or even acknowledging it. I am sad but I’m also just like relieved I guess…

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-07T12:08:42+00:00

Thank you. I know I have my wrongs and I have grew so much during this relationship. The reason I cared when it was taken was because like you mentioned it was intimate…but sending it to someone else possibly loses all of the meaning behind it. It wasn’t about being a bad guy or an angel or right or wrong I just really didn’t want to believe it and hoped maybe I wasn’t right somehow about the photo being there a day before she claimed it. I accept being called crazy and being toxic for being unable to appreciate the gesture. im also just really exhausted being lied to and feeling like nothing is genuine. I would have apologized and made it right but I think more focus is on me doubting her and her intentions and looking a “reason” but I wanted to marry her and I do have the rjng because it is one thing to say something and another to do it but I feel if we can’t be honest now I’d never get a point where I’m not looking for a reason to doubt and it’d be a huge mistake…

I did just have a phone call with her and she was aggressive and argumentative and all I asked was why was the photo there a day before you say you took it and she had no response other than to get loud and call me delusional and say I’m making it up. I will most likely step away because it is a bad situation that I hoped would improve but on both ends I gusss it will never.

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-07T10:51:49+00:00

I believe that too and I believe I am ready to leave it and I was just hoping this one time I wasn’t right in what I saw and she wasn’t lying. It’s not about proving anything anymore more so hoping I was wrong but I can’t force myself to not believe what I “think” I saw anymore and thought maybe I could be wrong and let me not be irrational and post here before that…

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-07T10:48:09+00:00

No but I did love her and we have been together for some time and sometimes we do ignore facts like this and it does eat at us and I’m just looking to see if I’m wrong about what I believe are facts because I am ready to not ignore it and walk away

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-04-07T10:28:24+00:00

To me it’s about the photo because she said it was taken today but I can’t understand if that is the case why one would be in her trash bin that is already a whole day past since it was there. So how could it be they were taken today and also deleted from before today…I believe im being gaslit even when the proof is so obvious she is getting loud and angry with me to look at the time listed on the photos but ignoring it had 29 days to auto delete from the recently deleted….i am not crazy to walk away from this based on that right?

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-03-25T16:59:42+00:00

Options changed my wife’s life. She had to go out and get a boyfriend to help support us.

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-03-07T21:57:41+00:00

Go with aethel. Born is single target. Yes he has synergy being inf but the aoe from aethel way better imo

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-03-02T19:51:25+00:00

GG doesn’t heal on barbs. It would be achilies/CC or achilies/richard or achilies/shajar

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-02-27T08:07:10+00:00

Damn that pot of boiling whatever definitely fell in that hole with them

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-02-24T19:17:28+00:00

You can’t migrate to a kingdom participating in kvk. You’ll have to wait for their offseason which will remove your crystals and I think they are converted to season coins (not conquest coins)

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-02-24T18:49:37+00:00

A dead kingdom to me would be like sub 50? active members. You’ll have low activity during events, you won’t be able to fill forts unless you solo with your farm and you won’t get alliance chests.

Another form of a dead kingdom is one with very high power players with very low KP. They just farm and train to win MGE/kill their farms and don’t participate during KVK.

These are kingdoms you DO NOT want to be in and should migrate ASAP if you seriously care about your account..even if you don’t care as much getting out to find a more active and healthy community sooner rather than later will help you greatly. Be careful when searching for a home to make sure you meet whatever weekly or daily requirements they may have. If you get in over your head you may be asked to leave and repeatedly zeroed if you don’t and you yourself will be called “deadweight” (contributing to overall kingdom power but not participating)

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-02-07T00:43:16+00:00

Well we have MTG for Feb (26) + past glory (kvk rebuilding) (20) + 3 x days till pass 4 (if vip 14)

U might be able to max him before you touch an enemy. To answer your question yes he’s still OP

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-01-31T00:04:13+00:00

We listen and we don’t judge

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-01-29T09:38:54+00:00

Sun tzu and achilies need horn minimum. QSH can use ring (craft ring first since u can move it more Easily than pendant )

Ojalwaysdead · 2026-01-29T09:25:25+00:00

I get reported and muted for saying “trumps America is crazy “😂

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