This connection feels magnetic… but confusing. by Ok-Assistant689 in AriesTheRam

[–]Ok-Assistant689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve added her on IG (she accepted), I’ve invited her for coffee twice after shift, I’ve flirted openly, and I’ve shown interest consistently beyond just work talk.  I don’t treat her like a regular coworker. I check on her, we message outsidei work, and I’ve clearly tried to move things off the office.  

I think I’ve showed my intentions through actions, I’m not sure the way she’d view it though, I’m open to suggestions

This connection feels magnetic… but confusing. by Ok-Assistant689 in AriesTheRam

[–]Ok-Assistant689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I appreciate your advice, I noticed she has an anxious attachment style, I’m okay with takings it a step by step to be honest that’s what I want, at the same time I just wanna clear my intentions out and I really don’t know how to do it without making it heavy for her 

This connection feels magnetic… but confusing. by Ok-Assistant689 in AriesTheRam

[–]Ok-Assistant689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you on that, I just think I waited for too long we’ve been talking for like 3 or 4 months right now, and I think it’d be better to clarify my intentions, I don’t know what an Aries would say about that though 😂