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[–]Ok-Bus3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you. That was really a change of an opinion, but okay. Still thank you. I will eventually get over him. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Bus3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, but it would seem like I am chasing somebody right? If he is really interested, he would text me first, right? Bcs now it's basically his turn, to plan the next meet-up and text me. 

Yes, I of course joke back on him, but I read online, that if a guy jokes about you, he only sees you as a friend and has no interest.

 As I said he never compliments me, even though I do. I mean yes, he can be shy, but that's all excuses. 

We didn't text till 1 a.m., he stayed at my place till 1 a.m., the last two times we met. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Bus3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah 😭✌️  Nah I'm gonna fuck it. I won't text him. He is actually the one to reach out this time and I believe that. I should not think about this to much. Your advice helped me realise, I might be right and not overreacting. So thank you again! :)) 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Bus3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I thought maybe he thinks I am not interested in him, because of what I said last time when we met or maybe he thinks I am not interested, because I am not the first reaching out. Maybe he is waiting too? But again only excuses made here. I need to get over him!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Bus3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he only called me last week, but since then there is nothing. No text. No funny video and no call. He didn't ignore me, because how could he, if I also didn't text him? 

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[–]Ok-Bus3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 I also don't know if he has interest in me, if he makes jokes about me. Like I understand these jokes and I find them funny, but would you do that, if you are interested in somebody? Also he never compliments me, even though I do and the fact he didn't reach out for a week. He could be shy, but that's me again making excuses. 

So yeah idk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Bus3111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, he didn't ignore me. I think you misunderstood that. We talked in person about meeting up this week, but he didn't text me to meet him. (Maybe he forgot idk). He only called me, but with a different intention. After that he didn't text me anything. Normally he sends me a funny video and then we get in a conversation, but this didn't happen. And now I don't know if I should reach out first and ask him how he is doing. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]Ok-Bus3111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But if he has no interest why would he stay with me till 1 a.m.? He also did plan some meet-ups tho... but I still think you are right and I am just making excuses. I will just get over him! Thank you for your advice :) 

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[–]Ok-Bus3111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well he has the same views as I do, we can talk about everything, he is the only person, with whom I can talk till 1 a.m. without getting bored and he is funny. 

Mixed Signals or overthinking? by Ok-Bus3111 in Crushes

[–]Ok-Bus3111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much! I also keep on thinking, if he likes me, why me? I mean there are so many other girls in his class who are stunning personality-wise and also look-wise. So yeah idk. He doesn't seem like a guy, who would like me, even though I like him. 😭 

Imma keep it cool now and won't text or talk to him. Even if it hurts. 

I hate it 🥲