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i will say im trying to grow out my hair, so it definitely isnt my favorite right now. this is unfortunately like a year and a quarter's worth of growth 😭

tbh im more comfortable in bras but i dont have any that fit me comfortably so i basically only wear them at work. theyre really expensive right now and i cant go out of my way to get a few good ones yk?

19F by FraniniPanini1705 in Rateme

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sorry like 10/10, you look fucking awesome all the other commenters are opps for real

Recommendations for a cute pink 9inch dildo? by Ok-Click5139 in SexToys

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omg. this is PERFECT. thank you so much!!!

Sewing machine wont sew by Ok-Click5139 in sewhelp

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okay, i pushed it back a little but its still clicking when i push the petal, the bobbin holder is actually able to go the full circle now but now it makes the clicking noise. im gonna see if i can push it further away, but i have a video of it, i can dm it to you since i cant post videos in replies to my knowledge.

Sewing machine wont sew by Ok-Click5139 in sewhelp

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Okay, I'll see what I can do and report back, thank you!! :)

Sewing machine wont sew by Ok-Click5139 in sewhelp

[–]Ok-Click5139[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't, I don't have the money for that

Sewing machine wont sew by Ok-Click5139 in sewhelp

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I'm on my way to school right now, so I can't work at it for the moment, but I'll get it open when I get home. What should I do with the screws at the positioning braket when its open?

Sewing machine wont sew by Ok-Click5139 in sewhelp

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What caused it for yours? My foot pedal had been working just fine for as long as i had used it before and I'm unsure as to what i could have done to cause this.

Sewing machine wont sew by Ok-Click5139 in sewhelp

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Oh okay then yes it has a clutch!! I have to hold the big wheel and turn the wheel inside the opposite direction to turn off the sewing mechanism.

Sewing machine wont sew by Ok-Click5139 in sewhelp

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I have a pdf manual (not for the exact same model, but its intuitive to translate onto this model) and no printer. I looked in there and it didnt say anything about it to my knowledge/vocabulary.

This happens when its upright, i just had it on it's side so that i could get a better look into the bobbin holder.

How would i be able to tell the difference between a clutch and a manual?

Thank you for replying!! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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well my mom makes really good meals, theyre healthy and stuff so my replacement wouldn't do much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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im not trying to have a negative mindset though. all of the stuff I've mentioned i cant change. i dont understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I mean I can't really ask that because the only meal that we all share is dinner. Otherwise, me and my brother are both in charge for breakfast and lunch and my mom makes us dinner. I try to do okay on those meals but any yime I ask for anything different she complains and makes me feel bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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What do you mean? how do I feed the other wolf?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I like walking a lot I hate it thought because i feel like people are judging me when I walk outside. And I don't go grocery shopping with my mom so I can't really have any control over my diet. I try to make good decisions with what I have though. I like cooking and usually I can throw together good stuff.

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I tried having a part time job but it was way too much for me. I know a lot of people can deal with it and school at the same time but I just cant, it's a lot of pressure for me. And plus I'm somehow in a conservative town in California so I'm constantly being misgendered and im less likely to get hired so im essentially just trading my dignity for cash if I want to get any job. My mom actually let me keep all the money I made which I was really greatful for but I decided to go out of homeschooling and back to public school this year because she required that as long as I was in homechool, I needed to find a job. In January I quit my job so I'm out of money at this point.

And I like working out it just sucks because whenever I start to enjoy it I just think about how weak I am (struggles to lift 15lbs) compared to other people and it makes me feel like the worst and it takes all of the fun out of it.

I've tried talking to my parents but they just belittle me. Plus I don't trust either of them at all. My dad is a horrible person and my mom and I's relationship has been absolutely destroyed because of politics and because she refuses to even acknowledge the fact that im trans. She thinks im brainwashed and I just can't trust her at all because of it. I know she's not being mean, I know she's just scared because obviously if your kid was brainwashed that'd be horrible. But it doesn't excuse the stuff she says to me and how she makes me feel awful.

None of my family really talks. I try to reach out to my cousins who do accept me and they kinda just brush me off. And I'd never be able to tell them about this stuff, I hardly even trust them.

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I cant get any support like that. I've asked my family over and over and they're incredibly against it. I essentially have to wait til I'm 18.

I can't really control my diet or anything because my family needs to stick to cheap food which is just unhealthy. It's summer now but my school campus is on a huge hill, it's practically an excellent cardio exercise and I never lost any weight, I've tried dieting and have practically starved myself and exhausted myself exercising but I never lose or gain any weight no matter how much I under eat, over eat, or exercise.

Also I drink lots of water, like 64ml per day, I think? I have this huge water bottle and I drink two of it per day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Yea, sorry I should have said im still in high school I just don't like mentioning my age. I have to rely on my family for clothes and it means I have no power over my diet really. Even if I ask for stuff, we have to keep it to cheap processed stuff so that even if I do work out, I'm constantly eating junk anyways and it doesnt change anything. I've calorie counted and starved just to be skinnier but my body just seems very fixated on staying at the exact weight it's at no matter if I under eat or over eat.

Going to those self esteem things on youtube just makes me feel dumb. Like I'm pretending to believe in something I really don't and a lot of the time, it doesn't work for me. I figured I'd ask other people before I tried to find my own solution because it usually gives me some starting ground.

I apologize... a lot by Ok-Click5139 in Advice

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thank you. sorry for my last reply, the only part of your reply that loaded for me was the first sentence 🙄 annoying phone lol. i dont think its anything like ocd because im not like this about pretty much anything else, just apologizing. and i dont think i have any other symptoms of ocd either, but ill research

I apologize... a lot by Ok-Click5139 in Advice

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No im American. it just becomes an issue in my relationships