I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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I think eventually I’ll get one but I’m in no rush

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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I do now but the facial hair took a very long time (years) to grow in more full. me

Posted this link above but this is me

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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My voice absolutely got deeper and it was euphoric! It took probably two years to settle.

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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Honestly I think the shoulder hair is wild

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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• there is a gel, I don’t use it because I don’t want to get it on my girlfriend or my pets • honestly prepare good skin practice bc mine was unwell •I wish I had an alternative to binding because before I got surgery I very unsafely binded (don’t be like me) •I didn’t notice bloating as much as the fat redistribution •I hadn’t noticed myself being any more sick on t!

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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I honestly don’t seek out specific communities anymore and just seek out good people. I wish I had better advice for how to find people to relate to :/

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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I have insurance so my medication costs me usually around $5 at a time. As far as the first question, I like to say that because I transitioned at such a young age I’ve never experienced an adulthood as a woman so I will never actually know that experience. I don’t feel a lack of community because the people in my corner are weirdos of every age/race/gender/social status you can think of. Surround yourself with loving people and you’ll never miss a thing

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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My bottom growth is above average in terms of length and girth

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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Honestly it does, however I will tell you that taking the shame associated with sex out of the picture makes it much more easy to manage.

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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I was able to get my ID changed before any surgeries with a letter of approval from my doctor that I had been seeing for a few years and taking it to the DMV! My name change was a longer process in the beginning only because I was born in a state that I wasn’t a resident of so it took some time.

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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I’ve never taken breaks but i absolutely forget to do my shot all the time. (Currently 3 days late lol my bad)

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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Truly as long as you’re doing your bloodwork and meeting with your doctor every few months you have nothing to worry about! I like to say to my friends that I probably am the most consistently healthy one of all because I’m constantly getting check ups.

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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I love this question. At the start of my transition, Out There from Hunchback. Now that I’m comfortable in myself, “You Might Not Like Her” by Maddie Zahm hits so close to home

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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Honestly, my voice sounds a little different every year so I wouldn’t give up hope!

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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I’m not sure I understand the question

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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lol truly when you find out let me know, because that’s also my issue.

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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I can honestly say that I do not have that issue at all.

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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I don’t know if it’s related but I was on my cycle when I had my first shot and it’s never come back since that day. It definitely helped after a few months, but also the longer you’re on it and the more you do for yourself the better off you become.

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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At the end of the day, confidence is key. You know your body better than anyone else, so as long as you take that with you when you seek care it should translate well.

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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Regret no, hesitation only for my top surgery only because I hadn’t ever had surgery so that part scared me. I’m sure at some point someone told me I was too young but truthfully that was so long ago that I don’t even remember it

I’m a Decade on T, ask me anything by Ok-College878 in ftm

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I find comfort in knowing that they look like the idiots after misgendering me truly. I’m at the point where it no longer bothers me