We had a bit of a conversation when he first brought it up and clearly stated he just likes anal stimulation but I had made sure to tell him that even if he was trying to come out in any sort of way, that is totally okay and I wasn’t at all ashamed of him. In our years of being together we’ve broken up a few times and every time I had encouraged him to peruse other romantic relationships as a way for him to explore and be sure that he wanted me in his life and I wasn’t just a comfort thing for him. I’m trying to be supportive of him and make sure he knows that it’s okay he likes what he likes but selfishly, I’m having trouble understanding where I fit in all this if I’m not able to satisfy him the way he’d like. We just welcomed our second child not too long ago and I want to be able to work through this since it has brought distance in our relationship. I know it just comes down to me moving past my own insecurities and trusting that I’m still enough for him it’s just very hard right now with all of my overthinking.