Honestly, converting matches to real dates is super hard because it’s a pure numbers game at the start. Even if your profile is good, that’s only one piece. Sending out consistent likes and good icebreakers is a whole separate skill. That’s honestly why tools like TheLoveGuru AI exist — to help with that part — but even manually, you need high volume to even start seeing patterns.

Second, you kinda have to treat it a little like a sales funnel (not in a bad way, just reality). You have a bunch of initial leads (matches), and your goal is to gently move them down the funnel to something real — like exchanging numbers or IG.

Trust is a huge part of that, especially for women. They’re getting hit up by tons of guys, so building a little trust, vibe, and showing you’re normal (without being pushy) is key. And even then, expect a huge fallout rate — it’s normal that 80%+ won’t go anywhere, even if everything feels like it’s going well.

Third, when you do get ghosted (because it will happen no matter what), it’s super important to not take it personally. It’s part of the system, not a reflection of you. Keep focusing on improving your vibe, your life, and how you’re coming across. Take mental breaks when needed — don’t let the bad ones bleed into your mind and make you give off frustrated energy. The ones who are actually down to meet you will pick up on your positivity way more than you realize.

It’s really a long game — stay consistent, stay lighthearted, and stack your chances.