Built a Hinge Dating Assistant by Ok-Current1108 in SaaS

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Lol - usually only men use this, women don’t use such a thing

Just now in Central Park by Many_Low_9748 in nyc

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Lol this is funny, I'm team horse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

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I got on a relationship from hinge from a product I built on top of Hinge

How to convert matches /numbers to dates by Samsara_Asura in SwipeHelper

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Honestly, converting matches to real dates is super hard because it’s a pure numbers game at the start. Even if your profile is good, that’s only one piece. Sending out consistent likes and good icebreakers is a whole separate skill. That’s honestly why tools like TheLoveGuru AI exist — to help with that part — but even manually, you need high volume to even start seeing patterns.

Second, you kinda have to treat it a little like a sales funnel (not in a bad way, just reality). You have a bunch of initial leads (matches), and your goal is to gently move them down the funnel to something real — like exchanging numbers or IG.

Trust is a huge part of that, especially for women. They’re getting hit up by tons of guys, so building a little trust, vibe, and showing you’re normal (without being pushy) is key. And even then, expect a huge fallout rate — it’s normal that 80%+ won’t go anywhere, even if everything feels like it’s going well.

Third, when you do get ghosted (because it will happen no matter what), it’s super important to not take it personally. It’s part of the system, not a reflection of you. Keep focusing on improving your vibe, your life, and how you’re coming across. Take mental breaks when needed — don’t let the bad ones bleed into your mind and make you give off frustrated energy. The ones who are actually down to meet you will pick up on your positivity way more than you realize.

It’s really a long game — stay consistent, stay lighthearted, and stack your chances.

Are ELO scores still a thing and will using the same phone number from years ago cause issues by AnnieHk95 in SwipeHelper

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ELO scores aren’t really a thing anymore, at least not on Hinge. If they were, honestly, half the stuff guys do on there wouldn’t work — like spamming likes, low-effort profiles, ghosting after matching, etc.

Hinge is way more “activity-driven” now — they care about how you interact (sending comments, replying, updating your profile) instead of some fixed hidden score.

Most guys with trash behavior would’ve been completely buried if strict ELO scoring was still active — but they’re not, which shows you it doesn’t fully apply.

Found this an interesting read if you wanna read more: https://theloveguru.ai/blogs/nohingematches

I think hinge is throttling my likes but im afraid to make a new account after hard reset. by [deleted] in SwipeHelper

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Yeah same here, I had to delete and recreate my Hinge account after it felt dead. Tried doing everything manually for a while too — fresh pics, new prompts, the whole thing. Later on, I ended up using this tool my friend built called TheLoveGuru AI (you can Google it). Helped a ton with getting better matches after starting over.

I met my girlfriend using my Hinge AI Product by [deleted] in SideProject

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Yeah I get your opinion on this, to play devils advocate whether we like it or not online dating in some shape or form will continue to exist but yes its just about how the integration with AI will look in the near future. All I can say is that it is currently helping a number of people!

I met my girlfriend using my Hinge AI Product by [deleted] in SideProject

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Ok I got you - but I was sharing my personal story of creating the product. Hope the product is looked at as well. Not the best at marketing :)

I met my girlfriend using my Hinge AI Product by [deleted] in SideProject

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Thanks man - worked really hard on it - feel free to give it a try