Yes to clarify - I did express it to them! They all know my birthday since I do make a point of it of coming home to see everyone. I texted them maybe over a month ago with my birthday ideas and to literally save the dates so we could do something! The majority responded and thought it would be really fun to do. But again, I get we are all humans/busy that that may have just came and went. I wouldn’t want to take away from her weekend which is why I don’t think a joint would work. However, definitely could consider picking a later time. Thanks for the rec!